why so much bickering here lately ?

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Caz72
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26 Jul 2022, 4:59 pm

every time i log in wp these days theres so much bickering going on and i dont mean ppr but other forums like random and haven and often a moderator has to step in and break up a fight

does this go on on other forums or just this site ?
im thinking of finding a different autism site one with less bickering ?

its getting like where i work


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26 Jul 2022, 5:05 pm

I think it’s pretty normal based on what I’ve seen from other sites.


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26 Jul 2022, 5:08 pm

I think that wherever you get humans you'll get bickering.

Please don't leave, you're one of my favourite members here. :heart:


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26 Jul 2022, 7:19 pm

You look good without makeup, by the way.

I mean that in a Platonic, friendly sense.



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27 Jul 2022, 10:16 am

There are people on WP with mental problems outside of autism.



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27 Jul 2022, 10:26 am

There are people on WP who see only the negative side of events, institutions, and other people.



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27 Jul 2022, 10:42 am

You need only a small number of nasty people to make everyone unhappy. It's nearly impossible for a large forum like this one to be completely peaceful all the time because nasty people are everywhere online and offline.

I'm sad that one member was being attacked this morning. I hope he will not leave.



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27 Jul 2022, 10:50 am

temp1234 wrote:
You need only a small number of nasty people to make everyone unhappy. It's nearly impossible for a large forum like this one to be completely peaceful all the time because nasty people are everywhere online and offline.

I'm sad that one member was being attacked this morning. I hope he will not leave.


This used to be a large forum. Now mostly only the nasties are left.



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27 Jul 2022, 10:52 am

Matrix Glitch wrote:
temp1234 wrote:
You need only a small number of nasty people to make everyone unhappy. It's nearly impossible for a large forum like this one to be completely peaceful all the time because nasty people are everywhere online and offline.

I'm sad that one member was being attacked this morning. I hope he will not leave.


This used to be a large forum. Now mostly only the nasties are left.


If you think that’s the case, I’m surprised you are still here or do you include yourself among “the nasties?”


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27 Jul 2022, 10:55 am

temp1234 wrote:
I'm sad that one member was being attacked this morning.
Please use the "Report" button and let moderators know about it. Sorry, but we can't be everywhere at once and things will get missed.


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27 Jul 2022, 10:58 am

Am i the only one who doesn't notice bickering. I must be immune to it.


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27 Jul 2022, 11:07 am

Twilightprincess wrote:
Matrix Glitch wrote:
temp1234 wrote:
You need only a small number of nasty people to make everyone unhappy. It's nearly impossible for a large forum like this one to be completely peaceful all the time because nasty people are everywhere online and offline.

I'm sad that one member was being attacked this morning. I hope he will not leave.


This used to be a large forum. Now mostly only the nasties are left.


If you think that’s the case, I’m surprised you are still here or do you include yourself among “the nasties?”

I came in after the fact. But I've heard about it from people on other forums. I probably have a stronger constitution than those who ran off or were chased off.



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27 Jul 2022, 11:09 am

Matrix Glitch wrote:
Twilightprincess wrote:
Matrix Glitch wrote:
temp1234 wrote:
You need only a small number of nasty people to make everyone unhappy. It's nearly impossible for a large forum like this one to be completely peaceful all the time because nasty people are everywhere online and offline.

I'm sad that one member was being attacked this morning. I hope he will not leave.


This used to be a large forum. Now mostly only the nasties are left.


If you think that’s the case, I’m surprised you are still here or do you include yourself among “the nasties?”

I came in after the fact. But I've heard about it from people on other forums. I probably have a stronger constitution than those who ran off or were chased off.


I probably wouldn’t join or stay in a forum if I thought it was mainly frequented by “nasties.”


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27 Jul 2022, 11:17 am

Twilightprincess wrote:
I probably wouldn’t join or stay in a forum if I thought it was mainly frequented by “nasties.”

Well I'm already in the process of scaling back.



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29 Jul 2022, 6:51 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
You look good without makeup, by the way.

I mean that in a Platonic, friendly sense.


thank you kraftie

i wont leave this site then if other sites might be no different


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29 Jul 2022, 9:46 am

Caz72 wrote:
kraftiekortie wrote:
You look good without makeup, by the way.

I mean that in a Platonic, friendly sense.


thank you kraftie

i wont leave this site then if other sites might be no different


They're not for the most part, and some are much worse.