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03 Aug 2022, 11:12 am

That is what I meant to say. How do I fix this? I need help!



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03 Aug 2022, 11:13 am

Twilightprincess wrote:
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and they felt sexually assaulted.


Why did they feel this way? Did you force them to have sex with you?

Did it actually happen or is it a delusion?


It was a delusion and online sexual harassment, they immediately blocked me when I was in that state of mind.



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03 Aug 2022, 11:28 am

Are you sure it was a delusion and not that you misinterpreted something that was said.


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03 Aug 2022, 11:29 am

No, it was severe Megalomania and Erotomania, but yes, I misinterpret some social cues, due to lack of theory of mind.



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03 Aug 2022, 12:00 pm

Oh I thought you grabbed someone's bum or something.
I don't think it's something you would be arrested for, although I don't know exactly what you did.
You might be blowing it out of proportion.



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03 Aug 2022, 12:09 pm

I think that you are probably blowing this way out of proportion. You should probably tell a therapist exactly what happened, though, because it will help ease your mind and give you some perspective, I think.


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03 Aug 2022, 12:17 pm

That makes sense. I might have misunderstood social cues.



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03 Aug 2022, 12:21 pm

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No, it was severe Megalomania and Erotomania, but yes, I misinterpret some social cues, due to lack of theory of mind.


And you're completely unaware that this is happening at the time?


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03 Aug 2022, 12:24 pm

Yes, I didn't understand legal right from wrong at the time.



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03 Aug 2022, 12:42 pm

But now that you do understand all that are you able to change your behaviour for on the future


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03 Aug 2022, 12:47 pm

Yes, of course!

I feel bad for behaving badly, I wasn't myself. I am sorry!

I hope I can make friends with them again, or just move on.



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03 Aug 2022, 1:07 pm

Well don't be too disappointed if they don't want to get involved with you again.

At least you know what you did and you are capable of learning from it.


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03 Aug 2022, 1:44 pm

That makes sense. Thank you!

I was going to declare Not Criminally Responsible as a legal defense, if my former friends decided to press criminal charges on me, because I was severely delusional and misunderstood social cues at that time.

I just need to get a lawyer for that, just in case.



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03 Aug 2022, 1:47 pm

Do whatever makes you feel safe


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03 Aug 2022, 1:47 pm

Thank you!



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21 May 2023, 1:27 pm

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Did they forgive you?

I would hope the guilt would prevent you from doing it again.



They forgave me, it took some time.