Would this deformity make you find them less attractive?

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Jamesy
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07 Aug 2022, 8:11 am

Say if you found someone attractive based more on there looks and not so much there personality. Well say that person you fancied got into an accident and had there nose broken/crooked would you find your crush significantly less appealing/fanciable?



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07 Aug 2022, 8:16 am

No.


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07 Aug 2022, 8:46 am

Depends. Looks appeal to people almost instantly. Many can't help but feel instant attraction or not.



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07 Aug 2022, 9:00 am

I guess this is just a question for the ladies as a broken nose is a more manly thing to have? I dunno :lol:

I think I would overlook it personally.



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07 Aug 2022, 10:14 am

I suppose if I was already in love with someone who subsequently experienced a broken nose, I would still love her, and even go so far as to pay out-of-pocket for corrective rhinoplasty.

I would likely not, however, fall in love with a stranger with an obviously broken nose or any other disfigurement.



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07 Aug 2022, 10:21 am

no, looks aren't the primary source of attraction for me. A deformity might even make them MORE attractive, I'm not sure. I have a degree of face-blindness, so all you humans look alike initially.



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07 Aug 2022, 7:32 pm

This is not a “deformity.”

A person got hurt, and broke her nose.

It’s ridiculous to not love a person just because she broke her nose. It’s beyond ridiculous, actually.

My father didn’t mind that my mother had broken her nose after they met.



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07 Aug 2022, 7:39 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
This is not a “deformity.”

A person got hurt, and broke her nose.

It’s ridiculous to not love a person just because she broke her nose. It’s beyond ridiculous, actually.

My father didn’t mind that my mother had broken her nose after they met.




Yeah there are worse accidents that can happen to your face like having acid poured on your for example.



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08 Aug 2022, 9:13 pm

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08 Aug 2022, 10:42 pm

A broken nose doesn't really make a person unattractive, in my opinion.


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09 Aug 2022, 1:59 pm

I don't see a broken nose as a deformity.


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09 Aug 2022, 3:00 pm

Show us a picture of yourself.

Let's give you an honest answer once and for all.


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09 Aug 2022, 11:05 pm

You really should stop worrying about your looks and start to have fun.


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10 Aug 2022, 4:11 am

My nose has been broken 3 times. Someone still finds me attractive enough.


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11 Aug 2022, 5:59 am

Looks are not important to me so I would still find her attractive. My 1st girlfriend asked me a bit of What If questions like "Would you still love me if I developed cancer & lost my hair" & the questions got a tad redundant & annoying but I still woulda loved her.


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11 Aug 2022, 6:40 am

nick007 wrote:
Looks are not important to me so I would still find her attractive. My 1st girlfriend asked me a bit of What If questions like "Would you still love me if I developed cancer & lost my hair" & the questions got a tad redundant & annoying but I still woulda loved her.



I was not aware that cancer made you lose your hair?