Ask before making out or just do it?

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23 Aug 2022, 7:56 am

Ask her. I always did, and no woman ever said no.

However, I was always pretty darned certain the answer would be yes before I asked.

How did I know? Based on everything that had occurred up to that point.

If I didn't ask, it generally was because I was not into her.



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23 Aug 2022, 5:24 pm

I'm very affectionate with my romantic partners but I'm not into making out due to sensory issues. I thought I would be into it before I tried it thou. Me & my current girlfriend asked the other before making out in the beginning but we seldom make out due to me not being into it. She does not object to me trying to kiss her so I never have to ask 1st. I usually just kiss her on the cheek or an arm or her back or something when we're laying in bed cuddling. I'll occasionally kiss her on the lips & she sometimes realizes it before I do it & will kiss back or ask me to kiss her again. She usually tells me when she really wants me to kiss her. We pretty much never make out in public or around others but we are affectionate in other ways in public like holding hands or hugging.


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24 Aug 2022, 12:13 am

That depends. Would you rather do it jungle style like the hippies do it, or do you want to do it the civilized way like couples do?


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