Growing up I always found it easier to hang out with girls than other boys. That has become a problem in older age because it's very hard to have girls as proper, close, friends when you're in a separate romantic relationship with a girl. There's always that suspicion that you're up to no good both by the girl that you're trying to befriend and the romantic partner.
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And they told me there'd be people there, whose love could make me whole. But I walked among them yesterday, and never saw a soul.