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Kitty4670
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11 Sep 2022, 11:02 pm

I found a dating site for Aspergers

https://www.datingforaspergers.com



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12 Sep 2022, 5:53 pm

Kitty4670 wrote:
I found a dating site for Aspergers

https://www.datingforaspergers.com

Thanks. I'll add this to the list of dating sites on my website.


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13 Sep 2022, 2:11 pm

Can anyone give me a review of this site before I sign up ?

Please don't tell me it's like hiki



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14 Sep 2022, 3:04 pm

Single women are only 8 pages (~12 per page):

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Single men are 30 pages (~12 per page) :

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Kitty, expect TONS of messages....



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14 Sep 2022, 4:12 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Single women are only 8 pages (~12 per page):

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Single men are 30 pages (~12 per page) :

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Kitty, expect TONS of messages....

Isn't that roughly proportional to the distribution of Asperger's/autism cases? There are supposedly 3-4 times more cases in men. Just find that interesting.

Isn't the gap between men and women even bigger on most dating sites? Like 20 to 1?


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14 Sep 2022, 4:33 pm

Kitty's going to get matches no matter what site she goes on simply due to being a female.



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14 Sep 2022, 4:50 pm

So the ratio at the moment is 96(F):360(M)? This is also being generous and assuming that none of these accounts are bots(mostly in the female category because let's be honest, men encounter bots FAR more frequently than women).

Now if I take what The_Face_of_Boo posted and all of the other men on this site posted about dating sites...The odds aren't looking in my favor and I deduced that from just the numbers alone before factoring in the posts other members have said about their stories on dating sites.


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14 Sep 2022, 4:55 pm

r00tb33r wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Single women are only 8 pages (~12 per page):

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Single men are 30 pages (~12 per page) :

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Kitty, expect TONS of messages....

Isn't that roughly proportional to the distribution of Asperger's/autism cases? There are supposedly 3-4 times more cases in men. Just find that interesting.

Isn't the gap between men and women even bigger on most dating sites? Like 20 to 1?


Actually in real life the numbers are pretty much the same as far as meeting women in an autism space goes. I am in a professional autistic group and I have been in groups where it was like 8 men and 1 woman, 20 men and 3 women, all men and no women, I think you get the point. There was maybe like one or two times where there was more women than men and I been going to this place for 3 years. Do the math if you wish.


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16 Sep 2022, 5:49 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Single women are only 8 pages (~12 per page):

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Single men are 30 pages (~12 per page) :

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Kitty, expect TONS of messages....



I’m not on it.