Majority of women don't want to have sex with me.

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26 Sep 2022, 6:01 am

Since I am autistic and was diagnosed with autism aged 3 I assume my behaviour/ must be abnormal to a lot of people.

Do you think the majority of women will not want to have sex with me because I behave in a way that is not typical? I workout a lot and keep very fit but that still has not changed the fact I am still a 33 year old virgin. And I really doubt me being 5ft8 is a massive hindrance since I am not fat or overweight.

Don't get me wrong I have kissed a lot of women but that is as far as it has gone.



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26 Sep 2022, 6:06 am

Most women don’t want to have sex with me, either.

There’s no point in worrying about “being a virgin.” Don’t let this cause you to become someone who believes in BS.

And, frankly, you don’t pick the best places for Aspies to meet women. Why do you think I don’t waste my time in bars?

I feel like your enjoyment of bars interferes with you finding a woman who is good for you.



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26 Sep 2022, 6:11 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
Most women don’t want to have sex with me, either.

There’s no point in worrying about “being a virgin.” Don’t let this cause you to become someone who believes in BS.

And, frankly, you don’t pick the best places for Aspies to meet women. Why do you think I don’t waste my time in bars?

I feel like your enjoyment of bars interferes with you finding a woman who is good for you.



I have met women in bars who do have liked me but they have never said to me "Hey do you want to come back to my place so we can have sex"

There was this Scottish girl nearly 9 years ago who kissed me on the lips at the bar but she never offered to have sex with me.

Actually there was one occasion in early 2014 when this women pulled me by my shirt and said "Hey do you want to have a threesome with me and my friend" her friend looked disgusted and said "NO"



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26 Sep 2022, 6:16 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
Most women don’t want to have sex with me, either.

There’s no point in worrying about “being a virgin.” Don’t let this cause you to become someone who believes in BS.

And, frankly, you don’t pick the best places for Aspies to meet women. Why do you think I don’t waste my time in bars?

I feel like your enjoyment of bars interferes with you finding a woman who is good for you.



Why don't women want to have sex with you? :?


I had a friend college who was 5'10-5'11 and weighed only 138 pounds who had loads of sex with his girlfriend.

He wore glasses and had bad acne to.



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26 Sep 2022, 6:23 am

I love the way you view the world Jamesy. You're one of the few people on WP who literally makes me laugh out loud.


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26 Sep 2022, 6:25 am

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I love the way you view the world Jamesy. You're one of the few people on WP who literally makes me laugh out loud.



I do sometimes wonder maybe if I was 2 or 3 inches taller that I would have lost my virginity by now.



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26 Sep 2022, 6:33 am

Maybe but 5 foot 8 isn't particularly short. I don't think any of my boyfriends have been taller than that. I know My current one isn't.


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26 Sep 2022, 6:45 am

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Maybe but 5 foot 8 isn't particularly short. I don't think any of my boyfriends have been taller than that. I know My current one isn't.



I very very active and keep in good shape.

Should have lost virginity a long time ago



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26 Sep 2022, 8:03 am

Most women....don't want to have sex with most men. They want to have sex with the man they love----or at least have a great regard for.

Most women in the street are strangers to me. I can't expect most of them to want to have sex with me. Because they don't know me at all.



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26 Sep 2022, 10:27 am

babybird wrote:
I love the way you view the world Jamesy. You're one of the few people on WP who literally makes me laugh out loud.


There's nothing quite like a daily dose of Jamesy, is there?


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26 Sep 2022, 10:30 am

I hope Jamesy finds a woman who digs a "daily dose" of him.

Frankly, I don't believe this will happen in a bar type of situation. If I relied on bars, I would still be a virgin today.



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26 Sep 2022, 10:50 am

Most women don't want to have sex with me either. However, one very desirable woman does, and that's fine with me.


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26 Sep 2022, 10:50 am

So?


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26 Sep 2022, 10:54 am

Did you conduct a survery?



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26 Sep 2022, 10:55 am

IsabellaLinton wrote:
babybird wrote:
I love the way you view the world Jamesy. You're one of the few people on WP who literally makes me laugh out loud.


There's nothing quite like a daily dose of Jamesy, is there?


I can't figure out why he's not a big hit with the ladies.


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26 Sep 2022, 10:56 am

Benjamin the Donkey wrote:
Most women don't want to have sex with me either. However, one very desirable woman does, and that's fine with me.


To be fair, most women don't wanna have sex with me either.


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