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himmellaufen
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14 Oct 2022, 10:16 pm

I was never called a pedophile by random people for no reason.

Perhaps you are visibly gay/non-binary, and these people were homophobic and they think all gays are kiddler diddlers, so to speak?



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14 Oct 2022, 10:20 pm

I think that you should stop going to that pub.


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16 Oct 2022, 12:17 pm

himmellaufen wrote:
I was never called a pedophile by random people for no reason.

Perhaps you are visibly gay/non-binary, and these people were homophobic and they think all gays are kiddler diddlers, so to speak?



I might look gay visibly but I am actually straight.



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19 Oct 2022, 11:52 pm

As I have had many crappy life moments, I have thankfully never dealt with this. I have never been to London metro area, but I assume there is quite a few hundred/thousand different pubs/clubs out there, I would seriously look for an alternative, this will escalate before it gets better. As a teen I was constantly hearing gay slurs, I was straight, it wasn't until I lost weight and wore nice clothes that I heard these comments, when I was overweight and dressed in with t-shirts and jeans I was laughed at due to weight or poor sloppy clothes. They are looking for something, they spot something different and look for a bullying tactic, they won't be arrested or face punishment.



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21 Oct 2022, 1:19 pm

Tell the character who called you that, "Your opinion is not my reality."


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