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09 Oct 2022, 3:26 am

I was at the pub last night having a good time and a group of guys who I met before called me names like "pedophile" and "pedo" etc

Like I have mentioned before this is not the first this has happened to me in bars.

Do you agree that most likely someone has spread nasty rumours about me?



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09 Oct 2022, 3:31 am

Could be.

Could also be something else.

Just out of curiosity, why do you go to those pubs?


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09 Oct 2022, 3:32 am

r00tb33r wrote:
Could be.

Could also be something else.

Just out of curiosity, why do you go to those pubs?



Well I had a good time last night but those jerks just wanted to throw accusations at me.

A year ago by the way some people who were younger than me "forced me to expose myself and they recorded it on there mobile phones"



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09 Oct 2022, 3:40 am

How exactly did those younger people force you to expose yourself and how young were they?

How did you get yourself in that situation?


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09 Oct 2022, 3:50 am

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How exactly did those younger people force you to expose yourself and how young were they?

How did you get yourself in that situation?



I just started talking to them and later on they cornered me and took out there phones.

Later on as I walked away from them they shouted "kiddy fiddler" at me



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09 Oct 2022, 4:09 am

Next time take out your phone and start recording. You can say that you're streaming the recording to cloud storage. Should stop them misbehaving if you focus it on their faces.

By the way, London is covered in cameras from every angle, as her majesty loved peeping. Did you file a police report? Did they pull the surveillance footage?


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09 Oct 2022, 7:30 am

You're being bullied Jamesy


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09 Oct 2022, 7:47 am

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You're being bullied Jamesy


So do all people who are targets of bullying get called a pedophile?



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09 Oct 2022, 7:50 am

Jamesy wrote:
babybird wrote:
You're being bullied Jamesy


So do all people who are targets of bullying get called a pedophile?


No but for some reason the people who are involved with you are using that word to hurt you


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09 Oct 2022, 7:59 am

babybird wrote:
Jamesy wrote:
babybird wrote:
You're being bullied Jamesy


So do all people who are targets of bullying get called a pedophile?


No but for some reason the people who are involved with you are using that word to hurt you



In appearance and mannerisms I am quite efminate looking. I know people ignorantly throw the pedo insult at certain groups in society like gay people etc. And yes some individuals who I meet at the pub have called me gay before.

I am straight by the way but I am not sure if the pedophile slur is commonly directed towards autistic men? Certainly if you go on YouTube and look at pedophiles there mannerisms are often abnormal. 8O



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09 Oct 2022, 8:03 am

I really wouldn't know why anyone would call someone a pedo. It's a really serious accusation. I don't look on YouTube either for these things.

If you have a group of people who just accept you for who you are then I would suggest keeping company with them.


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09 Oct 2022, 8:08 am

babybird wrote:
I really wouldn't know why anyone would call someone a pedo. It's a really serious accusation. I don't look on YouTube either for these things.

If you have a group of people who just accept you for who you are then I would suggest keeping company with them.



Interestingly all of the pedophile accusations come from men but not women.



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09 Oct 2022, 8:15 am

You really are a glutton for punishment….why do you keep going to pubs after the incidents which you’ve relayed to us before?

I would have stopped after the first incident.

There seems to be something in you which delights in “notoriety.”



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09 Oct 2022, 8:16 am

Yes it's interesting alright.

It's difficult for anyone here to give you any answers to this problem to be fair.


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09 Oct 2022, 8:19 am

Jamesy wrote:
babybird wrote:
You're being bullied Jamesy


So do all people who are targets of bullying get called a pedophile?

No.

We are curious why.


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09 Oct 2022, 8:27 am

A year ago this guy pointed his finger at me saying "pedophile"