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14 Nov 2022, 10:31 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
Maybe not.....it can actually make you look too skinny.


I read up that getting down to 10 percent body fat is good goal for men who have not got naturally sharp facial features.



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14 Nov 2022, 11:38 am

There are any number of reasons why she responded to you the way you did. None of them is flattering to you.

Few men can get away with being a jerk to women.



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14 Nov 2022, 11:47 am

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kraftiekortie wrote:
I learned, a long time ago, that I can never hope to be a "playboy"----so why pretend you're a "playboy"? People who pretend this way look foolish.

I'm just a regular guy with regular looks and regular intelligence. And that's okay by me. And if it isn't okay by anybody else, that's their problem.



Everyone has different aspirations. Being a regular guy with regular looks is not good enough for me especially if I want to have a high quality life.


How is the high quality life thing going?

And then one day you'll find
Ten years have got behind you
No one tells you when to run
You missed the starting gun



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14 Nov 2022, 12:04 pm

Name one positive thing about yourself that has nothing to do with your appearance?

If you focus entirely on looks, you will attract shallow people. Is that what you want?

Don't place your entire value on your appearance.


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14 Nov 2022, 12:30 pm

Where_am_I wrote:
Name one positive thing about yourself that has nothing to do with your appearance?

If you focus entirely on looks, you will attract shallow people. Is that what you want?

Don't place your entire value on your appearance.



I am a nice guy



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14 Nov 2022, 12:52 pm

Jamesy wrote:
Where_am_I wrote:
Name one positive thing about yourself that has nothing to do with your appearance?

If you focus entirely on looks, you will attract shallow people. Is that what you want?

Don't place your entire value on your appearance.



I am a nice guy


Anything else as being nice doesn't cut it now days.

What about your personality, intelligence, traits that make you, you?



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14 Nov 2022, 12:54 pm

amykitten wrote:
Jamesy wrote:
Where_am_I wrote:
Name one positive thing about yourself that has nothing to do with your appearance?

If you focus entirely on looks, you will attract shallow people. Is that what you want?

Don't place your entire value on your appearance.



I am a nice guy


Anything else as being nice doesn't cut it now days.

What about your personality, intelligence, traits that make you, you?



People say i am intelligent



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14 Nov 2022, 1:28 pm

If you're intelligent, then you could meet a woman under better circumstances than having her dance on your lap.



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21 Nov 2022, 4:25 pm

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I was hanging out with some girls the other night at the bar. One of the girls who i know sat on the lap of her female friend.

I asked her if she wanted to sit on my lap ane she said to me "You wish".

Do you think her response might imply that she finds me unattractive?




Are you fat? Are you shorter than 5 ft 6? Do people say you look like a certain celebrity and that celebrity is unattractive?

If yes to any of those, then there's a good chance that she may have found you unattractive.



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21 Nov 2022, 4:58 pm

Muse933277 wrote:
Jamesy wrote:
I was hanging out with some girls the other night at the bar. One of the girls who i know sat on the lap of her female friend.

I asked her if she wanted to sit on my lap ane she said to me "You wish".

Do you think her response might imply that she finds me unattractive?




Are you fat? Are you shorter than 5 ft 6? Do people say you look like a certain celebrity and that celebrity is unattractive?

If yes to any of those, then there's a good chance that she may have found you unattractive.




I am 5ft7.75 weigh currently 165-168 pounds but I do weightlifting as well some of that weight could be muscle. I have been compared to famous people such as keanu reeves, Tom cruise, David Tennant, Lionel Messi, and Robert Carlyle.



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23 Nov 2022, 3:01 pm

She might be a lesbian.


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