Kitty4670 wrote:
What wrong with me? I talk to men for days or over a week then they disappear on me. Why they lose interest in me, it’s my fault? Did they find another woman? I can feel like I’m the second best, men want another woman.
I think that's just guys and dating in online, and possible in person in general. You talk to several people at once and figure out who is the best fit for you and once you're leaning towards one person you give that person more attention. That said after a couple of weeks or so its natural for the attention a guy is given you lessens as the novelty of someone new has worn off. This doesn't always mean he's lost interest in you. Just he's busy with work, activities and other general things going in and no offence to men, it takes a lot more effort in general for men to socialise than women as we're just born with the natural need to do so. Which is why its harder to diagonse girls on the spectrum as they are more likely to learn to mask and fit in with other girls early on. Not saying this is always the case after all its a spectrum.
So just do what guys do, build lots of relationships with lots of people and don't share to much and just make him want to get to know you more. Although if you're anything like me you'd have already picked one decided what you want to do and invision your future with him in the whole house and white picket fence then get devestated when it doesn't work out.
The guy I was talking to, he was visiting his brother & his family, he said it’s hard to get away to chat with me.
20 Nov 2022, 6:03 am
