increasing disorganization as we aspies age

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how many of you struggle more with organization as you age?
YES ME! :bounce: 50%  50%  [ 19 ]
NO! i'm still with it! :bounce: 16%  16%  [ 6 ]
i'm not so sure anymore. :shrug: 18%  18%  [ 7 ]
where's my soft serve? :chef: 16%  16%  [ 6 ]
Total votes : 38

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02 Jan 2023, 11:51 pm

thank you Isabella, thank you KK, you both have nice friendly taste in these matters :wtg: :star:



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02 Jan 2023, 11:52 pm

I only discern in discerning ways.


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02 Jan 2023, 11:53 pm

Which confirms my impression…..she doesn’t think everything is “art.”

What Auntblabby wrote was squarely in the Thomas Wyatt couplet tradition.



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02 Jan 2023, 11:57 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
Which confirms my impression…..she doesn’t think everything is “art.”


Actually I do.
That's one of my philosophies lol

Everything manmade is art because it was designed.
Everything from nature is art because it's a miracle.


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03 Jan 2023, 12:00 am

I see things that way, too.

But then…..there is the difference between throwing paint on a canvas and being a craftsperson/painter like Rembrandt.



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03 Jan 2023, 12:00 am

When I was a teen and a young adult I organized my interest collections to a fault. For example I had a collection of troll dolls and I'd put certain ones in certain parts of my room, like one part would have baby trolls, another would have trolls with different "jobs", like a doctor, a police officer, a firefighter. and a mother troll with a baby because I believed at the time that being a mother was the most important job of all. But I could never stop reorganizing everything. I was never satisfied and anxious and sometimes couldn't leave my room until I organized everything the way I wanted. It was like OCD or something and it wasn't until shortly before I was diagnosed with Asperger's that it began to wane along with almost everything I enjoyed. I'm glad I don't obsess with organizing like anymore but I also feel like a total slob.



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03 Jan 2023, 12:01 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
Which confirms my impression…..she doesn’t think everything is “art.”

What Auntblabby wrote was squarely in the Thomas Wyatt couplet tradition.

i'm not edumacated so i had no idea that i'd been writing sonnets this whole time! :o



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03 Jan 2023, 12:07 am

Not a sonnet. A conventional sonnet has 14 lines.

I meant John Skelton more than Thomas Wyatt.

https://www.poetrynook.com/poem/colin-clout-0



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03 Jan 2023, 12:11 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
Not a sonnet. A conventional sonnet has 14 lines.

I meant John Skelton more than Thomas Wyatt.

https://www.poetrynook.com/poem/colin-clout-0

you know your letters for sure. what do you call colin clout's form?



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03 Jan 2023, 12:14 am

Couplet/“Skeltonics”

As described by Britannica:

https://www.britannica.com/topic/Collyn-Clout


Agohday writes like Walt Whitman, with James Joyce mixed in….though he might not consciously know that.



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03 Jan 2023, 5:52 am

Auntblabby is an electronics maven.

He’ll probably never lose this ability.



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03 Jan 2023, 6:12 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
Auntblabby is an electronics maven.

He’ll probably never lose this ability.

unless i go senile. :bigsmurf:



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03 Jan 2023, 8:48 am

My mother was able to perform telephone therapy almost until she lost most of her ability to talk.



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03 Jan 2023, 10:30 am

Very impressive Kraftie , hope you inherit her genes ..? :D :D


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03 Jan 2023, 11:06 am

auntblabby wrote:
i'm not edumacated so i had no idea that i'd been writing sonnets this whole time! :o


Of course you ARE edumacated. Life is an education (I mean “edumacation”).


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03 Jan 2023, 2:09 pm

auntblabby wrote:
i collect stuff
it's never enough
my place is a mess
this i will confess
i could be on the tube
like those other poor boobs
on TV shows about we hoarders
all disorganized old molderers
and all of us are so alone
with nobody which to atone
i'm only slightly blue
but don't know what to do.
my niece will inherit my mess
she will exclaim, oh god bless
or maybe a few different words
synonymous with fornicating turds
lord please help me
i pray to thee
i can't fix it all myself
i need providential help
otherwise one day they'll find my skeleton
under piles like a heap of rotten gelatin
and stinking to heavenly hell
with my spirit in heaven to dwell
but for ever and a day
in my real divine home to stay.
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Dear Lord Aunt Blabby How Beautiful Poetry

Will Flow From Soul Led By The Feelings Senses;

Yes, The Emotions of the Day Deep, Deep, Within
FLoWinG iN Effortless 'Wu Wei' Ease; God Yes,

Subconscious

Mind Without

Even 'Knowing'

As Yes Socrates Does
Relate, "i Know Nothing;"

Yet the "Daimon" FOR REAL
RISES FROM SUBCONSCIOUS

MIND AND FOR A LITTLE WHILE
AT LEAST DISTRACTION IS ERASED

IN FLOW; 'THE ARCHITECT' OF MECHANICAL
COGNITION IS SLaYeD And 'the Oracle' Rises

Above Below

To F iN Tale

IT As Soul Bleeds
Through Whole to
Dance And Sing Free

In "DAiMoN iNSPiRinG" Flow

Yet There is Science And Reason to This too;
As Science Does Show That Our Feelings Senses
From Head to Toe in Emotional Flow are the Real

Glue of Cognitive
Executive Functioning;

Integrating Left and Right
Hemispheres; Cerebrum Above
Cerebellum Below As Dance And
Song in Free Flow Verily And Surely Does

Increasing Laser Focus, Attention Span,
Short Term Working Memory, and Longer

Term Memory Retrieval too; Just Like 'Uncle Joe Biden'

Learned Greater Not to Stutter And Speak in Flow Too
Reading Poetry And Increasing His Poetic Intelligence

Which Only

Means Words
Come to Marry
Our Emotions Within

As Dance Will Do in Non-Verbal
Language From Head to Toe Even More

As Science Shows the Average Human Attention
Span Far Beyond Just Diagnosed ADHD, Along With
Autism Spectrum Disorders, and The Such of Labels

Is Overall 3 Seconds; Yes, Less That What A Literal Gold Fish
Will Do With Attention Span too; So What's the Problem; Yes,

DISTRACTIONS
DISTRACTIONS
DISTRACTIONS

SCREENS
SCREENS
SCREENS

BRIGHTLY
LIT WITH DOPAMINE
INFUSING COLORFUL
DISTRACTIONS AS LIFE

BECOMES ONE GREAT BIG
BALL OF TWITTER AND TIK TOK
FOCUS OF 3 SECOND ATTENTION SPAN AND THE SUCH

Yet Not Only That Yet Decades of Being Only A Spectator
Passively Behind A TV Engaging Mirror Neurons In College
And Pro Sports on TV too Yet Never Really Moving Connecting

And Co-Creating

ToGeTHeR ReaL

IN FLESH AND
BLOOD LIFE; Yes, No,

Oh Dear Lord, i Couldn't
Even Write One Creative
Page in Literature Class in College;

IT Had to Read Firstly, Secondly, Thirdly,

And in Conclusion, All Reasons With No Free

'Creative Daimon Flow;' Oh Dear Lord, 2 BreaKThroughs;

Once in 8th Grade, Winning A Christmas Story Contest in 2 Homerooms

of Yes, 80 Students; i Had No Idea What Sparked The 'Daimon Within' Yet

True It Was

Christmas;

i Was Outcast;

i Had All These

Emotional Feelings

Brewing Within That

Just Big Banged Like

An Orgasm Of SPiRiT HeART
SoUL On Page Hehe even with
Chicken Scratch Writing Then

And Then Again in A Philosophy
Class, the Flowing Creative Lectures
By the Philosopher Instructor Far Out

of Page Inspiring me With Deep Feelings
And Senses in Emotional Sensory Synergies

Of Energies Free FLoWinG; Inner 'Daimon' Within Again Returning

Set Free; Hallelujah! Far Beyond Any Walls of Religion For Real...

Yet Only Two Instances

in my Life Up Until then;

So Wonderful to Be Fully
Engaged in Flow in those
Two Instances of Creation
Activity in Life; Then Later in

College, i Checked out a Book on
'Creativity' to Figure Out How to Do
It Yet Lord Knows i Didn't Have the
Attention Span And Focus to Read Even

More Than One Page; Checking IT Out 20 Times
At Least as Somehow the Teacher's Lectures Inspired

me Enough to Mind Meld With them in Laser Focus Yet
Opening Up a Page in A Book; Just No Focus to Do that

Somehow Staying Close to the Top of the Multiple Choice
Class Tests With Great Rote Memory, All The Way Close to
The Top of the Class With Three College Degrees Yet It's True

Life Is More
Complicated
Than Acing
Multiple Choice

Tests by Remembering
What the Teachers Said
That Way In Only Lectures Given;

Wow That's A Lot of Writing, i Could
Never Do That Before i Found A Poetic
Lyrical Music of Song Within to Dance
And Sing Free ThiS Way far Beyond Any Instruction

Based Life;

Far Beyond

Any Pre-Planning

Too; Far Within What

i Couldn't Reach Before

to Open Up Potentials and

Keep Them in Flow of Dance And Song For Real;

Basically, Life is Use it or Lose in Most All We Do;

Basically, Life 'These Days' TakeS A Whole Lot of
Human Potential AWay From Us For Real... God Yes;

NO, Humans Are not
Evolved Well for
Instant Gratification;

It's Not Every Day

Someone Has the Focus
And Attention to Paint
A Sistine Chapel Anymore...

On the Other Hand, i Have the
Fortune to Be Able to Focus on Only

One Task and Not Be So Distracted by
Our Modern Life; Hehe, my Wife Won't

Even Let me Take out the Trash as i Don't

Meet Her Parameters, HAha, of 3.333 Inches

From the Curb For the Garbage Can to Rest;

So Basically She Does The Rest As i Agree With
Her, She is the Best And Just Sing Honey Do Please

Do What You Do Best; Negative Stress is A Greatest Distractor too;

It's Much Easier to Do This When Financially Independent too;

Particularly, When the Intrinsic Reward of the Activity in Flow is

Greater Than Anyone

Else Could Possibly

Add to the Bliss
And Bless of the

Activity in Creation
of the Art in the Present Gift of Moment iN Flow;
Now Indeed Naked Enough Whole Complete iN PLaY

Nothing to
Add or Subtract

Possible in What

One Is Doing Now For Real

As Eternity Becomes The Act of Creation Now...

If Empirical Evidence Has Any Credence, The Fact

That i Continue to Get Stronger in Terms of Leg Pressing
1540 American Pounds Just Warming Up Now for 12 Reps
With No Room on the Bars to Add Weight to Warm Up and

The Increasing Output in

Both Quantity and Quality

in Dancing Free In Public
For 17,666 Miles in 112 Months

As Well As 11.2 MiLLioN Words

In Writing Poetry The "SonG

oF mY SoUL" iN FLoW

of SPiRiT HeART Free

Does Suggest That Life

May Continue to actually

Improve As We Age in Every

Way As It's True Irrefutably the

Evidence Says It has at least for me Now at 62

Coming From Hell 66 Months Before Age 53; And

Yes, Staying in Heaven Now For the Last 113 Months

For Real as It's true, You Can Still Look It Up on 'This

Internet Site' Back then in the Summer of 2013, Where

i Actually Replied to 'Aunt Blabby' Then Shortly After i Recovered From

Hell, Wait And See, Just Leg Pressing 500 Pounds Then And Much Shorter

Less Complex Creative Efforts in Dance And Song too; i Said as the Record

Still Speaks

Before i Danced
And Sang Much Longer

Indeed There are No Limits

i Could See Then And Now;

mY UNiVeRSE Within Inside
Outside Above So Below And All Around

Continues to Evolve And Expand Even More

As It's True 'the Oracle' of me Believes Then
Overcoming the 'Architect' of Technical Limitations
In Mechanical Cognition Then Yet True New Now 'Neo' With

100 Percent Faith in What i Do Beyond All Belief and Hope

Has

Use Still

For Both

The Architect
FRiEnDS With
Oracle As Well;

Just Yang and Yin,
A Balance oF A Lifetime
to Actually continue to Do...

Yet Here IS A Key, Ignore Either
And Sink More Than Swim Free...

And Another Literal Clue; SMart
Without Art; HeART Without Art;
EartH Without Art; And Even Part

Without Art Literally

Leaves Just

S and M
And HE
EH with
Only P, Hehe

On What Synchronicity iN
FLoW May BRinG Free Coming

To Find That Truth is Much
More Amazing Than Fiction
in Reality When We Set Our 'Daimon'

Free to Come Out and BREaTHE Free

As Real Organic SPiRiT HeART SoUL
Unleashing, Releasing; God Yes, Literally Set Free

i am
at
Least
For Real
With SMiLes...

Science is Getting Much
Closer to Providing 'Reasons'
Why All of this Organically and
Humanly Works For Free in Increasing
All Human Potentials in Creativity And
Productivity
For Real;

Meanwhile,

Without Selling

Any God D Shoes;

Yes, i "JusT Do It"

in 'Greek Goddess'

'Nike Victory' Way For Real Free...

My Sister is Diagnosed With Asperger's
Syndrome too; Her Special Interest is Birding
And Birding Photography; She Holds Local Records

And Her Art is Shared World Wide Online in Fabulous
Nature Publications;

Meanwhile; Yes, i am
A Totally Free Agent

As She is too; We Are Both
Financially Independent; Yes,

Ruling Our Own Worlds for Real...

Starting Out Without a Hot Water Heater;
So Very Poor in Money; So Very Rich in Warmer Souls...

And This is Also Key; Generate the Happiness Within And there
is Far Less to Buy in Life to Fill and Feel What Otherwise May Be Empty Within....

Can You Imagine Newly Now
How MUCH Richer i am
(Rhetorical Question
of Course)
Within;
Yes, Than Folks Now

Like Elon Musk, Jordan
Peterson, or the Orange
Colored Trump MeMe;

It's True What Good

Is it to Inherit the
Earth Without

A Soul to
Dream Now
New Fruition Real...

All That We Can And
Will Really Count on in
Existence is Change;
i JusT Truly ReAlly Do
Recommend The Best
Change Possible

For Real...

And Only Fully
Up to Whoever 'One' Hehe
Or 'Neo' And The Such Truly is Now New
In Fred's "Ubermensch" Way or Whatever HAha..:)



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