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The_Face_of_Boo
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14 Jan 2023, 12:36 am
MissMary227 wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
MissMary227 wrote:
Ummm. Not sure what world y'all are living in but in my girl world my friends date and have sex with guys they like and the guys either dump them, cheat on them, or turn out to be manipulative narcissists. Guys are getting laid as much as they want. As often as they want. And as many as they want. Girls are whores who are misguided into sleeping with men because they really want that relationship. Guys typically don't.
Success bias.
You can’t tell the distribution from that, maybe these are few guys and they cheat because they can afford it (having a lot of options).
The virgin guys are the guys you simply don’t know about, sexually invisible, because they are most likely unattractive.
I can assure you that in my guy world, attractive/charismatic guys are by far more likely to cheat, because they can.
Oh! That makes sense. Dating sites aren't too friendly for stereotypically unattractive men, huh? I am guilty of that as well. I don't do dating sites or fb anymore.
I remember the time I met one of my client's husbands. When I laid eyes on him I literally recoiled inside myself at how ugly he was and had to quickly get my face under control so it wouldn't betray my thoughts lol. He reminded me of that biggish ugly actor with the curly dark hair and super unusual face and little beady eyes. Anyone know who I mean? Anyway, I kept thinking to myself, "How could Kimberly marry someone so ugly!! !" Then I got to know him and now I think he is a cutie (in a platonic way). He is also a devout Christian and a great dad. I don't know why I thought he was so ugly.
Point is, guys need to press through and forward and overcome we girls' snobby attitude about that! We don't mean to be snobby, we just think that you have to be attractive to us from the get-go to date you, which is dumb considering we keep getting dumped. We get caught up in that mindset in our virtual world as everyone else does. Back before the internet, it wasn't quite as much of a factor because girls/boys were around each other more irl. You need to pursue us and make us notice you, stereotypically unattractive guys! For your sake and for our sake. Online, find a way to get to know us and you will succeed. I am speaking for all my sisters in this. Good guy > Attractive guy
I don't have all the answers, but my main piece of advice is don't give up and don't take us at our word. We don't know what is good for us!!
Is there any other dates NOT happening thro online means these days? lol I doubt it.
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You need to pursue us and make us notice you, stereotypically unattractive guys!
They can’t if you swipe them left/block them the moment you see their first picture.
And according to tinder stats « unattractive » guys are 95% of guys.
If you have too much apples at your disposal you will always pick the shiniest one.
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