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ivyeight6
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11 Jan 2023, 3:41 am

Why is that my sister’s boyfriend treats my daughters as his own when they are mine?



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11 Jan 2023, 4:06 am

It depends what he actually does



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11 Jan 2023, 4:08 am

He takes them places along with my sister. Concerts, movies, parties and other events.



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11 Jan 2023, 5:17 am

How often does that happen?



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11 Jan 2023, 5:19 am

Once or twice in a while.



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11 Jan 2023, 5:41 am

ivyeight6 wrote:
He takes them places along with my sister. Concerts, movies, parties and other events.

Is there a problem with him doing this?


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11 Jan 2023, 5:54 am

I have no problem with that. I’m just jealous.



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11 Jan 2023, 6:02 am

Are you not able to take them out yourself?



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11 Jan 2023, 6:04 am

Yes. When I have the time.



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11 Jan 2023, 7:28 am

maybe its more a matter of treating them like family if you all spend a lot of time together? The more love and caring kids get from others, the better (assuming it is healthy and proper behavior). Your kids win. I understand the feeling of being jealous or wishing to be included. Hopefully you all have time together as well.


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11 Jan 2023, 12:15 pm

So. Why is that he does it more than me?



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13 Jan 2023, 1:07 am

I wonder if he might be trying to prove to your sister that he'd be a good father. Like he wants to get married & have kids & wants your sister to see that he could handle that responsibility if she's on the fence or not quite ready or doesn't think he would be.


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13 Jan 2023, 1:09 am

Okay. Yes he is. Do you have other reasons?