Being a nice person is definitely important, but how you do it and what ways and so on are so varied, there could be a million ways of being nice and a million ways of looking at your behavior and whats considered nice or not nice, and so on.
I try to be a nice person myself, but can admit i have sometimes failed for various reasons, but the intentions are good most of the time, even during failures.
How much do you put in effort about this or would you say you are just being yourself? or maybe you are only nice to those who are nice to you first.
thank you