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Isa242
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01 Jun 2023, 4:00 pm

Oi, eu não sei oque fazer mais, meu pai é narcisista e não aceita que sou autista, minha mãe aceita, mas não leva muito a sério. Sou muitas vezes chamada de estranha pela minha própria família. Tenho problemas de lidar com a sociedade ou de me integrar nela. As vezes amo as mesmas coisas que estava odiando a 1 dia a traz, isso traz dificuldades para mim, principalmente no colégio. Já tentei me matar duas vezes, na época eu tinha entre 9 e 10 anos, não sabia sabia do autismo nem das outras coisas, então achava que eu só era extremamente esquisita, mesmo entendo qual a minha condição eu continuo não sabendo oque fazer. Muitas vezes tenho crises de ansiedade por conta dos barulhos altos ou das pessoas em volta de mim. Minha mãe não quer me dar uma identificação(crachá de identificação autista) pois acha que não é necessário, sendo que muitas vezes me ajudaria muito a evitar crises de ansiedade. Alguma dica? :jester: :skull: :lmao: :wall: (ignorem os emojis)



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01 Jun 2023, 4:05 pm

Um, this is an English speaking site so you might not get many responses. There is an other languages subforum in the index.


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01 Jun 2023, 7:33 pm

When I clicked into this thread ...I automatically got a pop up thing in the corner of the screen asking if I wanted it translated into English. So I just clicked yes. And magically it turned the original post into English.

Sounds like you have lots of problems coming from your autism. And that your parents are too blind to see your problems. I am not an expert in what social services they have in Brazil but there must be some way to get a social worker to help you out in areas that your parents refuse to help you.



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02 Jun 2023, 1:32 am

Isa242 wrote:
Oi, eu não sei oque fazer mais, meu pai é narcisista e não aceita que sou autista, minha mãe aceita, mas não leva muito a sério. Sou muitas vezes chamada de estranha pela minha própria família. Tenho problemas de lidar com a sociedade ou de me integrar nela. As vezes amo as mesmas coisas que estava odiando a 1 dia a traz, isso traz dificuldades para mim, principalmente no colégio. Já tentei me matar duas vezes, na época eu tinha entre 9 e 10 anos, não sabia sabia do autismo nem das outras coisas, então achava que eu só era extremamente esquisita, mesmo entendo qual a minha condição eu continuo não sabendo oque fazer. Muitas vezes tenho crises de ansiedade por conta dos barulhos altos ou das pessoas em volta de mim. Minha mãe não quer me dar uma identificação(crachá de identificação autista) pois acha que não é necessário, sendo que muitas vezes me ajudaria muito a evitar crises de ansiedade. Alguma dica? :jester: :skull: :lmao: :wall: (ignorem os emojis)


Translation (mostly Google with a couple tweaks from me):

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Hi, I don't know what to do anymore, my father is narcissistic and doesn't accept that I'm autistic, my mother accepts it but doesn't take it too seriously. I am often called strange by my own family. I have problems dealing with society or integrating into it. Sometimes I love the same things I was hating a day ago, that brings difficulties for me, especially in school. I've tried to kill myself twice, at the time I was between 9 and 10 years old, I didn't know about autism or about the other things, so I thought I was just extremely weird, even though I understand what my condition is I still don't know what to do. I often have anxiety attacks because of loud noises or people around me. My mother doesn't want to give me an identification (autistic identification badge) because she thinks it's not necessary, although it would often help me a lot to avoid anxiety attacks. Any suggestions?



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02 Jun 2023, 3:01 pm

Hi, I don't know what else to do, my father is narcissistic and doesn't accept that I'm autistic, my mom does, but doesn't take it too seriously. I am often called a stranger by my own family. I have problems dealing with society or integrating myself into it. Sometimes I love the same things I was hating the 1 day it brings, it brings difficulties for me, especially in high school. I've tried to kill myself twice, at the time I was between 9 and 10 years old, I didn't know about autism or the other things, so I thought I was just extremely weird, even though I understand what my condition is I still don't know what to do. I often have anxiety attacks because of the loud noises or the people around me. My mother doesn't want to give me an ID (autistic ID badge) because she thinks it's not necessary, and it would often help me a lot to avoid anxiety attacks. Any tips? :Jester: :Skull: :lmao: :wall: (ignore the emojis)
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That thing came back ...offering to translate it from Portuguese. So I copied and pasted it this time.