Advice on Courting on a Spectrum

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Hello people, how is the air. I'm the new face in here and have shown it because there is a glitch in my understanding or methods and am in need on realignment and or redirection. I am a man on the spectrum, what a rush. So, let me entertain you with a little history on my current error in my understanding. I am an active guy who believes everything is 1s and 0s.

Because, well, like a gaming code to that of a program this prettiness of a world is but an experience, and every decision changes something one way or another, and today I am here to find the information that will change my ways so without further chat.

I am a guy who is as active as the surface of the sun, I am always working out, being active outdoors, socializing with dear daddy or sister for reasons.

I am selfless, share what you've got and bare what you haven't I always say. I respect everyone, I have no enemy, I see no flesh, Like the simulation in which we dwell, I have no emotion, no empathy, and that which I do have from within is all but a simulation of that which I lack to date.

I neither judge not speak against any who appose me nor against anything I shall ever bare, I am selfless, I am emotionless. Dear mommy's life force left the simulation less than a week ago and dear daddy and of my dear sister, taking it rather hard they are, I am selfless, and Feel no attachment, as I am but a simple line of code within the bigger creation.

Though you would never see my belief of this in person, no, no, no, I appear as a selfless, guy with nothing more than love and respect for everyone and everything that streams before me.

My question to all the people of this fine cyber community is simply this,

I have tried
okcupid.com
match.com
bumble.com
eHarmony.com
Zoosk.com
POF.com
CoffemeetsBeigle.com
Tinder.com

and so many more, I have been using these sites since their code was written, and yet, this prettiness has never attracted another, great photos, is marvelous locations, from renaissance festivals, to fair grounds, to the most spectacular beaches, to the down right gritty river side bar.

All showing my face with a smile and the finest cloths, because I do love fashion I do, yes, yes. I spoke with astounding truth and left much to the imagination, but if you must know what was written in that little box, please, glance at the following.

Hello people, I am ____ _____. I am an energetic and fairly active being at only 37 years of life. I enjoy hours at the gym to walks on the beach, were all like a program I always say, so make the best of it your life before it expires.

I am educated up to high school & not a micron more. I enjoy living life beyond the lines that guide it.
I have a good since of humor and personality, I am family oriented and have many friends.

I do love music such as synth-wave, techno, trance, jazz and those lines of sound, I enjoy watching K-drama, anime, synth-Scifi, and am a star trek and star wars fan, I love comi-con, cosplay and video games.

I am looking for someone to combine myself with and to enjoy all of the marvels and wonders that life can send our way. We only live on this level once, so I want to enjoy it with someone who has a good personality and sence of humor who will enjoy similar interest like the gym, shopping and enjoying life best of our ability.

"I am educated up to high school & not a micron more."

This makes it sound like you're bragging about not having a college education, which isn't a good look, unless you want to attract anti-intelluctuals.

Beyond that, if English is your first language and you talk like you type you're going to have a tough time finding someone who likes your quirkiness, especially through mainstream online dating.

Is English not your first language? This all reads a bit...off to a native English reader/speaker

Hello C-3PO.

Ehhhhh I mean, I don't want to sound rude or judgmental, because that's definitely not the intention, but... something about the way you write seems hella disingenuous. Which I suppose tracks in some way, since you mention having a bit of a stoic approach to life... why have empathy towards a simulation etc etc. That's perfectly fine in my opinion, but is this your actual tone and style of speaking, when you're just thinking to yourself or talking with people who are close to you? Because if it isn't, I'd encourage changing things up a bit to reflect who you actually are, not just a portrait of your avatar in a simulation which has to be somehow decoded in order to be enjoyed in any sort of organic capacity.

(Side note, I'm sorry to hear about Mom... it might not feel like there's emotion happening related to that, but...)