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Iris.Ell
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13 Feb 2024, 5:08 am

Hello ladies,

I observed a pattern I have when choosing a relationship partner- which means that I must be deeply in love with him.

His voice and his smell.. If that ticks the box, and if he can leave me a lot of space, then I can be with him.The bodies I like are usually the same type of body. It doesn't matter what his skin color is. His personality, was usually discovered later. Now I am much more aware of teh red flags to watch out for.

What are your criteria? Do you feel your senses are very much triggered with someone that it might make you fall in love with him?

Took me ages to realise that this might be a peculiar thing that I have compared to others.

Thank you


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13 Feb 2024, 7:53 am

Ethics
Smell
Music
The way they say my name


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13 Feb 2024, 9:15 am

I definitely value voice and smell of a man over "looks", when it comes to physical attractiveness.
Other important factors are intellectual and emotional connection.


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Iris.Ell
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13 Feb 2024, 9:59 am



Oh yes, Isabella, thanks! Music, how could I forget that one :wink:

Listening to different types of music does not work, really..


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17 Feb 2024, 8:31 pm

A guy must smell good and be relatively clean most of the time. Oh and not smoke anything. All the other senses are less important. I don't judge people by their looks too much. Looking hot doesn't do it for me.


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18 Feb 2024, 7:30 am

can you see how mother nature works behind the choices we might make in partners? I love my partner's personal scent and his voice. Even after 40 plus years.


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