Ignoring messages Aspergers male

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Sophia22
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05 Jul 2024, 9:32 am

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My guess would be "not sure why you're still talking to him and feeling too awkward to reply." Seriously. Even neurotypical men are often very slow to process romantic stuff. It's a stereotype, but there's some truth in it. In the time a woman's mind has run a dozen increasingly wild simulations about an interaction, the average man's brain has just about fired up enough to go "wait, what?"


Do you mean because he's unsure of the intention. None of the messages are romantic in nature, we are of the same forum, his home city Athens.



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06 Jul 2024, 8:26 am

OP Why did you join this forum just to complain about an Aspie not replying to your messages :?:


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06 Jul 2024, 11:33 am

one wonders if males of a different culture, may not respond to females in the same degree of directness than males of other cultures..???. :wall: :shrug: :shrug:


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06 Jul 2024, 11:57 am

Jakki wrote:
one wonders if males of a different culture, may not respond to females in the same degree of directness than males of other cultures..???

I don't think there's much cultural difference in this situation.


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06 Jul 2024, 12:49 pm

Maybe this Aspergers guy was a little bit nervous or anxious.


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