Iff a girl touches your arm?

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Jamesy
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07 Jul 2024, 11:39 pm

If a girl touches your arm during conersation does that mean she likes or is just simply being friendly?



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07 Jul 2024, 11:42 pm

A child?


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07 Jul 2024, 11:44 pm

IsabellaLinton wrote:
A child?



What?



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07 Jul 2024, 11:45 pm

Girls are children.


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07 Jul 2024, 11:47 pm

IsabellaLinton wrote:
Girls are children.


OK woman then



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07 Jul 2024, 11:49 pm

Is it intentional touching with no purpose?


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07 Jul 2024, 11:53 pm

IsabellaLinton wrote:
Is it intentional touching with no purpose?



It's just a body language question. I was with friends watching the euros the other day and observed a woman who was really happy touching a guys.arm. She even hit his arm as well :?



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07 Jul 2024, 11:55 pm

She could be an extrovert.
Touching your arm is a way to stop you leaving while she's talking.
If she's an extrovert...run!


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08 Jul 2024, 12:04 am

I know it's a body language question but in my experience all people use body language differently with different people. There's no set answer.

I might touch a man's arm to push him away, to help my balance, to flirt, to brush crumbs off his shirt, or any other number of reasons.

It sounds like she was likely drinking if she was happily watching euros. She might have wanted to express her excitement with the game.


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08 Jul 2024, 12:07 am

IsabellaLinton wrote:
I know it's a body language question but in my experience all people use body language differently with different people. There's no set answer.

I might touch a man's arm to push him away, to help my balance, to flirt, to brush crumbs off his shirt, or any other number of reasons.

It sounds like she was likely drinking if she was happily watching euros. She might have wanted to express her excitement with the game.



She hit his arm as well. Not in an aggressive way though



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08 Jul 2024, 12:13 am

The only way to know for sure would be to ask the woman doing the touching and hitting.


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08 Jul 2024, 12:13 am

Her boyfriend was present at the table when she did it as well



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08 Jul 2024, 12:20 am

It sounds like they were friends or fellow game fans but you'd have to ask her to know for sure.


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08 Jul 2024, 1:27 am

When I was in middle highschool a couple of attractive female classmates went around rubbing/touching boys in other classes in order to get a kick out of seeing them get really embarrassed (this is pre-internet). they might have been getting their kicks but the point was they knew what they were doing.

I do accept that many women might do it unintentionally when they are in a moment.



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08 Jul 2024, 3:20 am

Maybe she's a tactile person

Personally I wouldn't read too much into it

Do you like this "girl" Jamesy


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08 Jul 2024, 3:36 am

It depends on the situation, how it's done and various details, but generally speaking when a woman is touching your arm it is more likely she has positive feelings towards you than the opposite.


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