Feeling guilt towards co-workers

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I'm incredibly lucky in so far that my colleagues are really patient and understanding with me. They give me a lot of freedom and are really understanding when I need some space for my own. Lately, I feel like I've withdrawn a bit from the team, and have been doing my own thing. They're not complaining, but I feel bad about it. I've asked them about it and they insist it's not a problem, but I'm not sure if they would tell me if there is something bothering them.

I'm not sure if I really have question here, but I am curious if anyone else has experienced something alike?

(Might be worth mentioning: I know I'm incredibly lucky, and I'm definitely not complaining. Just wondering if others have felt similar... insecurities, I guess?)

Well, as long as you are able to keep up with work, I think they understand that you aren't there for social interaction like many normal people. They also understand that you have a limited amount of energy to do stuff.

I can relate to this. I started a new job a bit ago and often find that i have a tendency to keep to myself. I do want to interact with my coworkers but struggle to. Even though no one has said anything to me about it I cant help but feeling like im messing up by not trying to get to know those on my team more. Its a constant feeling of im doing something wrong when it comes to being a part of a team of people.

That makes sense to me. Social interaction is exhausting, especially in work situations. It's a lot to keep track of all at once, and you don't want to mess up because the consequences would be impactful. You could upset the wrong person, lose opportunities, your job, and even references for future jobs. Add the autism social difficulties, and it can feel like it's too much.