Finding Places to Meet Women

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Heh, I actually struck up conversations with girls in the university library all the time when I was in college. Actually, I think it got to the point where I was "infamous" for that, and people had a canned response of, "I'm trying to study; buzz off." For me, classes were similar as Todd489 described, so I liked to get there a little early and chat with classmates before the professor started lecturing (or after the lecture). Then again, commuter colleges apparently have a different mindset from universities with dormitories on campus (the kind of college I attended).

It is extremely rare for someone to approach me for any reason at all. (No, I don't look freaky, and, yes, I do practice hygiene.) I have found the best solution to this is for me to actively approach people. This approach enabled me to overcome my shyness in college although this does not in itself make one friends, as I've discovered.

I definitely don't have the kind of personality that enjoys dressing "goth" or "emo" or whatever weird-looking clique crap is around now. I tend to find women who dress that way less attractive for it.

That's the tough part for us aspies. We have so much knowledge on subjects that interest us, but giving a dry lecture appeals to very few. The ability to make spontaneous smalltalk with someone I don't know is definitely not one of my strengths. My social strengths are humor (often dry or absurdist but occasionally also childish). Yesterday I was engaging in political discussion offline with a couple of aspies, and my sarcastic wit was in full force. Then again, that usually isn't the kind of social interaction that builds an intimate romantic relationship.

Bully for you! Really. I can't seem to manage this,
or when I choke up the courage to do so, am so
certain that I sound as fake as so many others
I see doing it.



Not weird enough. I had to give up one of
my favorite styles of dress, when the goth
movement started going into wearing poet's
shirts and such.

My Red and White striped jacket ALWAYS draws
attention. Some bad, but most pretty damned
complementary.


More than that, I can't stand it.
Someone approaches me with
so little, and I almost always snub
them.



I don't know. I seem to have enraptured the
woman who became my wife through a philosophical
discussion. She didn't add much, but just was watching
me.

Ditto.

AND, there is nothing which seems
as immoral to me, as sounding that
fake.

ok , give them more false hopes , bravo.


Neathumain , I dunno ...you may try a social network like facebook ....I heard guys telling me that they met girls thro it but I personally hate it and don't use it anymore because it is a site for showing-off and stupidity .


Anyways Neathumain , don't concern a lot about this ...usually 'love' is not worth it ( and I don't personally believe in it) . Continue your life , focus on yourself , your skills , your jobs and continue your life....i am not saying to make no effort but don't make this as first priority in your life. This is what I am doing , if I ever will find a gf then it's good , if no then it's ok to me.

Oh, I don't know... maybe the fact that you've used the word "female" as a pejorative adjective THREE TIMES now?

And that every time, you've prefaced it with the word "typical", thereby signaling that you consider not only my thought processes, but those of nearly every other woman, to be contemptible simply by virtue of our gender?

That might be it.

Or maybe it's the fury you fly into at the thought of putting effort into attracting a woman?

Or the fact that when a woman tries to help by explaining what's required to get most women's attention online, you get angry at that woman and mock what she's saying?

Those are pretty strong indicators, too.

Well no, you dont know! but she is right! When things are on our minds with out us even knowing it, we give things away by what and how we say things. You should take a step back, take a deep breath and look at yourself and the way you are towards others. If you we cant tell ourselves the truth who can we tell the truth to????

In fact now that I have read the whole and I am more knowledgeable on the subject I can honestly say Littleprince Little Dick more like,

or maybe I just love to tease you ? maybe?

and what's so bad in using the word 'female'? there's no shame to be female at all , I won't shoot u if you call me male you know ...i find this vocabulary sexy somehow , Miss Female .

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oh no you're too wrong bro, my dick as erected can reach 17 cm so it's quite normal . Being 5'3'' only , sometimes I lose balance and fall on my front because of it

You posted that merely to tease me personally, and it indicates no hostility towards women in general?

Yeah, okay, if you say so.

What if I love to tease all women in this forum ? I won't date any1 of them after all you know so i am not losing anything in teasing you all .

You've opened yourself up to it,
just by arguing. I often tease those
I'm in a disagreement with, no matter
what their gender.

Then again, I am a misanthrope.

Women are everywhere dude! Just talk to more of them alot.