treeheart wrote:
:cry:
i have a hard time with this...and i do care about people and what is happening good/bad.
but i just have a hard time showing that i do....
it goes in how i react....i avoid them, or/and talk about them with other people or in my journal....
i do care...
it is just that i don't have the right instiction wired into me on how to react properly...
anyone else with this problem?
I never have the words for these situations either, but I find ways round it. I try to think of what I can actually
do to help someone, what would make them happy? For instance, I don't know what to say to comfort my mother when she's upset about her horrible job, but I can hoover the house and have dinner ready when she gets in. I think she actually appreciates it far more.
Reminds me - better log off in a min and make dinner.