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Aspirituous
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08 Nov 2007, 5:27 am

Well I'm the type of person that generally likes to please, and I do have a bad habit of feigning interest just to satisfy others.


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08 Nov 2007, 5:31 am

Aspirituous wrote:
Well I'm the type of person that generally likes to please, and I do have a bad habit of feigning interest just to satisfy others.


Bad habit indeed. Jesus christ, man, you need to stop doing that. "Feigning interest." f**k all kinds of that s**t.


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08 Nov 2007, 5:46 am

That's what the NT's tell me, that's what the aspies tell me (about lots of things mind you)... My god, to what group do I fit?


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08 Nov 2007, 9:05 am

Don't worry-I have that problem too, lol. I will bend over backwards sometimes just to not disappoint somebody. I think it is because I just don't know what's expected of me from others usually, so I just kind of try to fit somewhere sometimes, lol.


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08 Nov 2007, 11:28 am

Yeah. I don't really feign interest, but I generally don't know if I am interested until I hear what they want. Often by the time I actually understand what they want and decide that I am not interested, I am in too deep to just say no thanks and walk away.