I would also say that I'm a realist. I mean, I'm not expecting a happy ending every single time I go through something, like in the movies; it's good to expect the worst out of things instead of always expecting the best. I think it is also good, however, to be optimistic and show a little confidence while striving toward goals, but not be overconfident; just enough to get you through. As a Christian, I have hope that God will answer my prayers and decide what's right in a turn of events, good or bad; so in those situations, I have hope, despite if something bad happens. Life is full of turns of joy, and turns of trials and grief; so, it's good to expect some bad things, yet good to expect some good as well.
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I'm 24 years old and live in WA State. I was diagnosed with Asperger's at 9. I received a BS in Psychology in 2011 and I intend to help people with Autistic Spectrum Disorders, either through research, application, or both. On the ?Pursuit of Aspieness?.