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yes self-defence

Have you ever ghosted someone?

hell no, that is an evil AFAIC, i couldn't do it.

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All the time.

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Yep.

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To be clear on what we mean by ghosting: refusing to respond to someone who is trying to communicate with us. No, I haven't done that, ever.

What I often call ghosting is being really slow to respond. That's not really ghosting. And, I don't think I've done that, either.

Being really slow to respond to me...bothers me, if I know you respond to other people. I'm clearly unimportant to you.

I see lots of posts among autistic people who think it's funny that they are slow to respond. I don't find it funny at all. So many of us feel isolated and alone, yet we treat with amusement our indifference to people who actually try to communicate with us.

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^^^your post deserves a "like" button

I've only ghosted people that made me super uncomfortable. I try not to ghost people otherwise.

Can you visualize things in your mind?

thankfully yes. but i have some trouble visualizing useful stuff. like stuff that will help me.

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Yes, I can visualize things. It's probably part of the reason that I function in life as well as I do, since I rely on my ability to do that a lot.

What are some of your stims?

not mentionable in a G-rated thread.

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Hand ringing/rubbing; drumming on my thighs or torso with my hands; playing with pens; scratching my palms; scratching my forehead; putting a finger on the end of my nose; moving my legs.

When are you most relaxed?

when i'm dead.

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I'm most relaxed when I'm sleeping or taking a shower/bath.

How many cups of water do you think that you drink in a day?

judging by output with allowances for evaporation/respiration, about the recommended 64 fluid ounces per day.

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The water bottle I use is 24 fl oz, and I drink maybe 2.5-3 of those a day, so anywhere from 60-72 fl oz.

Do you have any hypermobile joints?

I likely have about 10 glasses of ice water in a day.

No hypermobile joints.

Can you move your eyes separately?