I would like a man that really cared for me

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My name is Kate Smith, I am 43 yrs old , and my email address is [email protected]

email [email protected]
Sanford NC 27332

http://s122.photobucket.com/albums/o268/katesmith_2007/

I want a real man who would really care for me. I would like someone to Love me. I do not be treated right at home. No one at home wants me or loves me. I would Like to be shown how to live a nice goed life.
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kate smith

Last edited by KateSmith on 10 Jan 2008, 1:59 pm, edited 3 times in total.

Kate... last time... for your safety i have contacted a moderator and requested that they take your information out of this thread...

IT... IS... NOT... SAFE...

Last edited by Strapples on 09 Jan 2008, 7:34 pm, edited 3 times in total.

katesmith, AGAIN you posted your private info, i nkow you want someone who cares about you NOW but posting with our private info like that IS DANGERUS. and beleive it or not, anyone who is not a wp member could see what you just typed, i was linked here from the welcome page.

in your condition, its not the best for you to be posting your private info.

when you are lonely or down you can post to the yahoo group i seen you on (but dont give out home address and phone #) or you can msn me.

Last edited by doordoctor on 09 Jan 2008, 7:23 pm, edited 1 time in total.

and katie, you can MSN AIM YIM me any time...

and i would gladly one day get together with you not romantically, but you just need supportive friends... romance can be done later... but first you need supportive friends...

Last edited by Strapples on 09 Jan 2008, 7:34 pm, edited 2 times in total.

I can understand about the Address but if Kate wanted a phone call how dangerous would having the number available be?

of course the funny side is that you're asking for aspies to contact you via phone - we'd be the worst group to pick for that...

much better to rely on chat and email if you can.

doordoctor and Strapples, I suggest you both edit your posts to remove KateSmith's details. By quoting her, you have made it impossible for her to remove those details, should she wish to, plus you have made search engines more likely to index them.

I commend your thinking, and agree with it, but it is Kate's right to publish such details as she wishes to.

yeah phones are not my thing the address is dangerous the phone number not so much..


kate lets do a bargain, take off the address leave the phone number? please... for ur safety... its not like any aspie will ever get in their car and drive there and pick you up your picking from the wrong people for that

She sounds too needy, so I wouldn't even communicate with her. But YEP, the phone number is enough to get a lock on who she is and where she is.

Steve

i would communicate with her...

all I would like is to be held and cuddled. I wanted a real live person that I can talk to. I hang around chat, but I do not ever get any attention from my husband at home, all he ever does is say mean things to me, he mentally abuses me. He says he does not care about me. I am depressed over it. I wish I can feel special for one day.

Last edited by KateSmith on 09 Jan 2008, 6:34 pm, edited 1 time in total.

i have bolded the things id like too...

i love being held and cuddled but the sad thing is i lost my girlfriend and i dont get that anymore from anyone

Another problem with posting personal information is that we have no way of verifying that the person who is posting the information is the person who the address and phone number belong to. Posting another person's photos and contact info would be easy, and potentially very harmful.

This is not intended as a criticism of the OP. I'm just pointing out another danger of posting that kind of information.

Girl, you need to drop that zero and get yo sef a hero!

Kate
maybe it would be safer and better to use this web site.

http://www.aspieaffection.com/
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Just a little advice, you need to learn to love yourself first, and find out who you are, otherwise your just be taken advantage of.

When younger I spend many years looking for someone to love me. But it really does not work like that, all it caused me was pain.

Kate,

Wouldn't your husband be a little miffed if he saw you posting these sorts of things?

Try to work it out - talk to him about how you feel.

If that doesn't work, then get out of there - don't stay in an abusive relationship.

You're certainly not going to attract any men while your husband is about (probably with a shotgun).

If she's mentally ill than she isn't a state that allows her to reasonably make that decision.

Also, if the info is left up and something happens to her because of its presence on here, Alex/Wrongplanet could potentially be held liable.

And Kate if your really this desparate contact the woman's shelter - they'll help you move out and get a job where you can support yourself. If your husband is physically abusive, they'll even help you move to another state and change your name so he can't find you. They'll also give you free counseling