Name + avatar: Dana has been my nickname forever, because of Scully. I somewhat look like her, esp. eyes hair and skin, but the nickname stayed because of my personality, and character ... so there I'll use the 5th amendment. She helped me know better what I felt via observation and analysis. So I guess thanks Chris, thanks Gillian. I think I nailed the verbalization process here.
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"Ever since I was a child, I’ve never allowed myself to get too close to people. I’ve avoided emotional attachment. Perhaps I’ve been so afraid of death and dying that any connection just seemed like a bad thing, something that wouldn’t last." Dana Scully - Christmas Carol.