Betzalel wrote:
What do you do if you can't get away and someone has you backed into a corner or even worse follows you when you try to retreat? this is where I get into trouble. It doesn't happen often but last time it did I nearly wound up in prison for 7 years for trying to kill someone.
In that case I was living with some very abusive people and had no place else to go and things just escalated (over a period of a few weeks with people constantly touching me to laugh at my reactions to being touched.... I HATE BEING TOUCHED.) until I just snapped one day.
I was in similar situation, minus the almost-killing and the therapist said that in THAT kind of situation you're not meant to endure it. So, I don't know about the possibility of staying clam and preventing a meltdown from happening. Of course by all means it should be prevented that one can actually harm a person badly during a meltdown, but if the alternative is that one gets is abused and/or gets harmed instead, that's just not right.
I'm not sure about whether it's possible to stop a meltdown from happening. The alternative my therapist has spoken off is that one must find a way to fight this situation by controlled and calculated actions to stop it effectively
before it becomes to hard to bear and causes a meltdown.