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jkrane
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07 Apr 2008, 10:35 pm

look down. if you see a lump starting to form in the guy's trouser's, then chances are he likes you :wink: :P 8) .



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10 Apr 2008, 3:52 am

I am so painfully oblivious that I assume that most guys don't find me attractive...and I am shocked to death on the rare occasion when it is bluntly made obvious that they do.



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25 Apr 2008, 8:29 am

I'm not very good with any of this, but I have talked at length with NT friends about this (and quizzed them on all the confusing bits) and I conclude that when it comes to long-time friends and romance, NT's are just as clueless as us.

Both people involved are scared to embarrass themselves and lose the friend, and so one gives even subtler clues than usual, and then other isn't sure whether they're picking up the clues right or not, and so only reacts very subtly, and nothing happens (until perhaps alcohol intervenes).

Or perhaps one feels love, and so searches every interaction for clues of the other's love, and misinterprets out of pure hope.

Anyway, I have heard of many other scenarios, but the general message is that this is tricky for anyone, so I'd say no one could be sure, but you may as well try and see what happens, if you really like him.



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10 Feb 2009, 4:25 pm

A guy likes you when he is beating the crap out of you because you were dumb enough to beleie he really likes me because he's nice to you. With nice guys, you can tell a guy likes you when you just want to get rid of him. NOthing is a crushing as seeing a fine woman go off with a douchebag, especially when you know how he's going to treat her, and that she couldn've gotten a guy to make her feel good in mind and body.


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