What is the AS trait you have that people find sexy?

Page 1 of 5 [ 73 posts ]  Go to page 1, 2, 3, 4, 5  Next

SpaceCase
Queen of Carebears
Queen of Carebears

User avatar

Joined: 14 Mar 2005
Age: 29
Gender: Female
Posts: 2,674
Location: Pennsylvania, USA

13 Apr 2008, 10:15 pm

Alot of people,for some strange reason,think that my "naivity"(sp?) is cute.


-SpaceCase


_________________
Live and let live.


KingofKaboom
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 20 Oct 2007
Age: 33
Gender: Male
Posts: 4,713

13 Apr 2008, 10:31 pm

This is a sort of roundabout result of being aspie but I smile a lot when I'm around people and b/c I have really big dimples they like me more/ think I'm really cute. I dunno I do it b/c of alway being nervous in groups of people and thats b/c I have AS but yeah it's indirect but one begets the other.


But to be totally honest I don't even know why so many girls think I'm cute I don't really understand why they think it I'm always hearing from people saying how the new person I met said I was cute after I left the room, I don't think I'm ugly but I don't think I'm particularly attractive either it's weird what people think sometimes *shrugs*


_________________
Tacos (optional)


Social_Fantom
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 22 Feb 2008
Age: 35
Gender: Male
Posts: 13,565
Location: Trapped outside of the space time continuum

13 Apr 2008, 10:51 pm

I don't know if this is really an aspie trait but I have had some girls tell me I gave a hypnotizing gaze when I look them in the eyes.


_________________
So simple, it's complicated


Yoshie777
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 29 Apr 2007
Age: 32
Gender: Male
Posts: 2,545
Location: Seattle, WA

13 Apr 2008, 10:53 pm

I don't know.


_________________
Joshua

We all deal with problems and strife, but it's how we deal with them that makes all the difference in the world.

"You are no accident!"
-Rick Warren


PenitentSpark
Raven
Raven

User avatar

Joined: 17 Jun 2006
Age: 39
Gender: Male
Posts: 120
Location: on the internet

13 Apr 2008, 11:28 pm

Social_Fantom wrote:
I don't know if this is really an aspie trait but I have had some girls tell me I gave a hypnotizing gaze when I look them in the eyes.

Same thing here pretty much. It didn't use to happen much since I was bad at eye-contact and looked away from people, but since I forced myself to look people in the eyes its like what you said. A bit awkward at first since I wasn't used to people looking me in the eyes and keeping their gaze there.



twallcx
Tufted Titmouse
Tufted Titmouse

User avatar

Joined: 7 Feb 2008
Age: 33
Gender: Male
Posts: 46
Location: Sacramento, CA

14 Apr 2008, 12:18 am

Social_Fantom wrote:
I don't know if this is really an aspie trait but I have had some girls tell me I gave a hypnotizing gaze when I look them in the eyes.


same here, also, my peculiar sense of humor



EvilKimEvil
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 26 Sep 2007
Age: 40
Gender: Female
Posts: 3,041

14 Apr 2008, 12:27 am

Apparently, I look innocent, and that is seen as attractive (kinda scary, imo).

Also, I think like a guy and act like a guy even though I look like a girl. Some men find that attractive; others find it unattractive.



slowmutant
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 13 Feb 2008
Age: 40
Gender: Male
Posts: 11,411
Location: Ontario, Canada

14 Apr 2008, 12:55 am

Women love a man with a sense of humour. My sense of humour is one my most valued traits. I think it's inherited from my Dad's side, cause all the men in the Jansen clan are funny guys. No kidding.



Mikomi
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 24 Jan 2008
Age: 41
Gender: Female
Posts: 811
Location: On top of your TV, lookin' at you funny.

14 Apr 2008, 12:56 am

I don't know if this has anything to do with my being on the spectrum, but I think it does. Guys have told me I think more like a guy, and they find this very attractive. Guys say I "get" them. I do. Women tend to have a lot more complicated social structures, innuendos, hidden meanings, etc., and I find it all exhausting and pointless.


_________________
Curiosity is not a mental illness.
Homeschooling Aspie mom of 2 kiddos on the Spectrum.


Rowen
Yellow-bellied Woodpecker
Yellow-bellied Woodpecker

User avatar

Joined: 26 Feb 2008
Gender: Female
Posts: 58

14 Apr 2008, 1:07 am

People tell me I like to be mysterious.
I just don't like talking about myself.



MissConstrue
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 4 Feb 2008
Gender: Female
Posts: 19,810
Location: Earth

14 Apr 2008, 3:05 am

I don't know for sure but maybe coming off as nice and sometimes naive. I don't know if those are good or exactly bad traits. Some guys make me feel like a child or that I need help but I've also had guys tell me how pleasant I am to be around which to me is a compliment. As an aspie myself, it's been hard to really understand anyone's cues unless they're completely blunt. So I can't exactly tell if someone likes me or is just being polite.


_________________
I live as I choose or I will not live at all.
~Delores O’Riordan


Nico
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 28 Sep 2006
Gender: Female
Posts: 1,877
Location: Cheshire, UK

14 Apr 2008, 3:58 am

Guys say I'm a nice person and I look quite mature.


_________________
Controversy begins only where acceptance ends.


14 Apr 2008, 4:37 am

Guys say I'm cute and my literalness is even cuter. Same with naivety but this was back in my late teens.



MR_BOGAN
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 5 Mar 2008
Age: 119
Gender: Male
Posts: 3,200
Location: The great trailer park in the sky!

14 Apr 2008, 4:50 am

I really like people that are different and have more character. I've never met anyone in real life with AS


_________________
Dirty Dancing (1987) - Trailer http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qU8CmMJf8QA


AngelUndercover
Velociraptor
Velociraptor

User avatar

Joined: 2 Dec 2006
Age: 33
Gender: Female
Posts: 428
Location: somewhere else

14 Apr 2008, 7:02 am

My innocence, and the way I don't play the typical girlfriend mind games.


_________________
"I don't even know how to explain it, but this is not my dimension, and my mind is never at peace; it's always somewhere else." - Josh Groban, Alla Luce Del Sole


Last edited by AngelUndercover on 15 Apr 2008, 6:04 am, edited 1 time in total.