looking for a girl to talk to between the ages of 12 and 14

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04 Nov 2005, 4:32 pm

My name is sonic, my real name is Spenser, I started this topic because every girl seems to hate me, I could have never meet them before in my life but they all seem to hate me, (no this is not because I look dorky or stupid). Please tell me this curse dose not work over the internet :(



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04 Nov 2005, 6:02 pm

sonic wrote:
My name is sonic, my real name is Spenser, I started this topic because every girl seems to hate me, I could have never meet them before in my life but they all seem to hate me, (no this is not because I look dorky or stupid). Please tell me this curse dose not work over the internet :(

it dose dosen't it, I knew I was just fooling myself that just because they can't see me dosen't mean they can't still hate me :cry:.thats why no one is responding :cry:



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04 Nov 2005, 6:04 pm

Don't worry Sonic. I reckon youll be beating 'em off with a stick soon.



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04 Nov 2005, 6:06 pm

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Don't worry Sonic. I reckon youll be beating 'em off with a stick soon.

your just saying that because I'm dpressed :(



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04 Nov 2005, 6:09 pm

Booze 'em up my man, thats the secret.



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04 Nov 2005, 6:23 pm

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Booze 'em up my man, thats the secret.

yeah and that worked me how many years hmmm lets see, ding ding ding oh thats right it's a big fat 0, I get depressed like this and then everyone thinks of me like more of a loser than I already am.Oh and now I'm going to read your mind your going to say one of the two,
1. your not going to respond
or 2. then don't think about what other people say and don't get depressed,
well it's not that easy so somebody shoot me now I'm worthless :cry:



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04 Nov 2005, 6:28 pm

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04 Nov 2005, 6:36 pm

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Study Socialism and you'll have something to believe in and with which to unite with others in solidarity. Once you do that you'll attract a female who is compassionate and intelligent because all those kinds of girls are Socialists.

Each according to his means and each according to his needs.

books and internet study won't help me here, and don't tell me you two are like 16 to 17 years old and your trying to help out some little kid



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04 Nov 2005, 7:13 pm

Relax.

You've got your whole life ahead of you to meet girls. Most people at that age are not in a relationship.



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04 Nov 2005, 7:56 pm

hale_bopp wrote:
Relax.

You've got your whole life ahead of you to meet girls. Most people at that age are not in a relationship.


There is the factor of what Hale_bopp said that you have to remeber. But I know by the sounds of things sonic you don't want to spend your hole life waiting and all your chances seem so hopeless to you at the moment. But they are not you still have lots of time. You never know who you mite meet later on perhaps in uni.

In the mean time I have some suggestions. Keep fit. You see what kind of guys girls like. They are in magazines and things. The only difference is those guys keep really fit. You could try going on long bike rides every day and lifting weights a little bit to build muscle. If you a fat burning some of that off would help heaps. I found that building up my muscles and keeping pretty fit helped me out tonnes.

Some thing I am also working on my self is trying to find ways to keep conversations going better and find out about interests that NTs have so I can talk to them about them.


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04 Nov 2005, 8:03 pm

he'll be ok he needs to learn to trust himself first.



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04 Nov 2005, 8:15 pm

You're still young. I know you probably don't want people telling you that, but it's true. I know it may seem important at the moment, but trust me when I tell you that most boys your age don't have girlfriends.



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05 Nov 2005, 11:42 am

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he'll be ok he needs to learn to trust himself first.


Trust himself? I think more along the lines of us trusting him.

The first thing I thought of when I saw the thread title was "Police sting"

A kid looking for someone to talk to on the internet? They got articles of internet predators and police stings in the paper once a week.

Contrast this innocence

"My name is sonic, my real name is Spenser, I started this topic because every girl seems to hate me, I could have never meet them before in my life but they all seem to hate me, (no this is not because I look dorky or stupid). Please tell me this curse dose not work over the internet"

with this adult style brush off

"books and internet study won't help me here, and don't tell me you two are like 16 to 17 years old and your trying to help out some little kid"

Police are scum. They would lie to anyone to make friends, then stab them in the back.



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05 Nov 2005, 11:58 am

Happeh wrote:
sandra3 wrote:
he'll be ok he needs to learn to trust himself first.


Trust himself? I think more along the lines of us trusting him.

The first thing I thought of when I saw the thread title was "Police sting"

A kid looking for someone to talk to on the internet? They got articles of internet predators and police stings in the paper once a week.

Contrast this innocence

"My name is sonic, my real name is Spenser, I started this topic because every girl seems to hate me, I could have never meet them before in my life but they all seem to hate me, (no this is not because I look dorky or stupid). Please tell me this curse dose not work over the internet"

with this adult style brush off

"books and internet study won't help me here, and don't tell me you two are like 16 to 17 years old and your trying to help out some little kid"

Police are scum. They would lie to anyone to make friends, then stab them in the back.


Lets not start making assumptions about other new members please. Nobody here knows anything about you either yet - we don't usually start from a position of suspicion.


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05 Nov 2005, 12:50 pm

I'm not in any relationships right now Sonic. Nor do I have much helpful experience. So I don't really think I can give you any good advice. Just try not to let yourself get too depressed. Think about something else if you can. Something enjoyable. And try not to beat yourself up too much. That can only make things harder.


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