looking for a girl to talk to between the ages of 12 and 14

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05 Nov 2005, 12:51 pm

Ante has a good point about studying Socialism. Before I was a socialist, I didn't know any girls. But in the last 2 years, I have become friends with girls (even if I don't want a relationship with them) simply be impressing them with interesting political facts. I come over as intelligent, and often they develop an interest in what I am saying as well.

However, if you are only 13, I wouldn't worry about this sort of stuff. At age 13, I was quite content in my own little world talking to my imaginary friends........ :lol:



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05 Nov 2005, 4:12 pm

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he'll be ok he needs to learn to trust himself first.


Trust himself? I think more along the lines of us trusting him.

The first thing I thought of when I saw the thread title was "Police sting"

A kid looking for someone to talk to on the internet? They got articles of internet predators and police stings in the paper once a week.

Contrast this innocence

"My name is sonic, my real name is Spenser, I started this topic because every girl seems to hate me, I could have never meet them before in my life but they all seem to hate me, (no this is not because I look dorky or stupid). Please tell me this curse dose not work over the internet"

with this adult style brush off

"books and internet study won't help me here, and don't tell me you two are like 16 to 17 years old and your trying to help out some little kid"

Police are scum. They would lie to anyone to make friends, then stab them in the back.


I wish I was a cop I could shoot myself in the head, thank you for making me realize that I have no friends, and that people hate me wherever I am, I am sorry you think that I am a bad person. If you can forgive me I'd apreciate it though I don't know what I did wrong,but if you can't it's okay. :cry:


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05 Nov 2005, 4:42 pm

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05 Nov 2005, 4:55 pm

Happeh wrote:

Trust himself? I think more along the lines of us trusting him.

The first thing I thought of when I saw the thread title was "Police sting"

A kid looking for someone to talk to on the internet? They got articles of internet predators and police stings in the paper once a week.

Contrast this innocence

"My name is sonic, my real name is Spenser, I started this topic because every girl seems to hate me, I could have never meet them before in my life but they all seem to hate me, (no this is not because I look dorky or stupid). Please tell me this curse dose not work over the internet"

with this adult style brush off

"books and internet study won't help me here, and don't tell me you two are like 16 to 17 years old and your trying to help out some little kid"

Police are scum. They would lie to anyone to make friends, then stab them in the back.


That was my initial thought as well but it seems that this was innocently meant. Maybe you should have said "Looking for a girl around my own age" which is still kinda iffy-sounding, but everyone's paranoid these days.



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05 Nov 2005, 6:10 pm

Sonic. please don't leave. Happeh only joined today and the attitude displayed in that post is certainly not representative of how we treat each other here. :(


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05 Nov 2005, 9:41 pm

Mr Forum Moderator. Yes Happeh only joined today. Happeh also knows exactly what he is talking about.

There is a TV show on MSNBC about adult sexual predators.

THEY SET UP A STING GOING TO BULLETIN BOARDS AND CLAIMING TO BE 12-14 YEAR OLDS LOOKING FOR FRIENDS.

The men who fell for it made appointments to meet the "12-14 year old".

When the men arrived, they found a TV camera crew asking them why they are sex perverts and what are they doing at a "12-14 year olds" house.

I know I am new and that you do not know me. Once you do get to know me, you will find I am a kindhearted person who will help anyone. You will also find I know what I am talking about the majority of the time.

I strongly resent your implication that I am unfriendly or bad in some way.

Do you honestly think Sonic would admit it if he was an undercover agent?



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05 Nov 2005, 9:54 pm

Happeh, we do not prejudge other members of this board without evidence. Accusing members of being undercover agents of the police without evidence would be considered a personal attack. Please familiarise yourself with the Terms of Service before continuing to argue this point.

My point for the benefit of the child who you upset is that most of us here do not make unfounded accusations or assume the worst of each other, as this is offensive at best and creates a hostile, unwelcoming atmosphere. In future if you have concerns that someone may not be all they appear to be, contact a moderator/administrator by private message instead of 'outing' them as potential fakes. Thank you.


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05 Nov 2005, 10:44 pm

Happeh wrote:
Mr Forum Moderator. Yes Happeh only joined today. Happeh also knows exactly what he is talking about.

There is a TV show on MSNBC about adult sexual predators.

THEY SET UP A STING GOING TO BULLETIN BOARDS AND CLAIMING TO BE 12-14 YEAR OLDS LOOKING FOR FRIENDS.

The men who fell for it made appointments to meet the "12-14 year old".

When the men arrived, they found a TV camera crew asking them why they are sex perverts and what are they doing at a "12-14 year olds" house.

I know I am new and that you do not know me. Once you do get to know me, you will find I am a kindhearted person who will help anyone. You will also find I know what I am talking about the majority of the time.

I strongly resent your implication that I am unfriendly or bad in some way.

Do you honestly think Sonic would admit it if he was an undercover agent?

I didn't say you were bad I said I was because I thought I could make friends, and if I did make an internet girlfriend I wouldn't want to meet with her because I'm to much of a chicken, the last time I wanted a girlfriend I asked a girl (which will not be named, I don't want anybody being in danger) to the end of the year six grade dance, her replie was the school caffeteria pizza to my face, you see I just wanted a girl to talk to. If any girls replied here and were offended I wish you were here with the most powerful guns in the world and would shoot me as much as posible :cry:


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06 Nov 2005, 3:03 am

Woah there horseys! Sonic, no one wants you to leave sweetheart, and we don't hate you at all. How old are you anyway? I suppose I assumed that you were somewhere around about 12-14 yourself. If that's the case, don't stress yourself out, you have PLENTY of time ahead of you to find a girlfriend. Perhaps it's best if you just stick to trying to make friends for now, and let things happen without trying to make them happen?

And Happeh, I understand that you have seen an article and are wanting to be careful of police stings, but take a moment to consider. Firstly, in my humble opinion, any adult that makes a time to meet up with a child IS suspicious, and it is probably a good thing that they are being asked questions. Even if their motives are innocent, most adults have more sense than to just meet up with a kid from online and expect to not get any questions. Secondly, police stings of your description are most likely to pretend to be female, as there is a much bigger problem with male offenders than there is with female. Thirdly, I don't see any specific reason for you to suspect that Sonic is anything other than who he says he is, bearing in mind that as far as I have read, he hasn't even stated his name. Such cognitive leaps can be incredibly hurtful, and they can be made all over the place. I would like to use an example. I could pick up on the fact that you are very suspicious about police stings, and I could then propose that this is because you are a convicted offender who has had past experience with such stings and thus is out for revenge on the police. Please don't get me wrong, I am by no means suggesting that you are guilty of this, and I don't think you are for a minute, I am simply saying that anyone can make an assumption about anyone, but most likely it will be inaccurate and serve only to upset people.

So... might I suggest that we all take each other on face value? The worst that happens is that... well, now that I mention it, the worst that could happen for me would be if I single-handedly caused the apocalypse and lived, but there is just another perfect example of being irrational! :lol:


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06 Nov 2005, 2:43 pm

Sonic I feel sorry for you you are trying to reach out and Happeh hijacked your thread. This thing about police stings is completely paranioded and if Happeh did have some thing genuine to worry about with a police sting then it would be because Happeh is the one that wants to meet with 12-14 year olds. Other wise even if by some werid twist on things sonic happened to be a police officer which I would say theres only a 1 in a million chance of that then its still none of Happeh bussienss and any one who met up with a with the officer should be caught.

Happeh I will say in future when you are thinking the cops are mysterisly going to bust some one just think for second. Do I care if they get busted? Who am I really helping if I stop them getting busted? And what will people say if im completely wrong or saying something that sounds insain?

Cause your risking sounding a bit paranioded here seriously.


On another note What this thread on the topic that this thread should be on.

I had to deal with what you are dealing with sonic in the past. I don't think I have much comforting to say execpt for its just because of this point of your life that relation ships with girls seems more important than they really are. And when you are older you will calm down and be able to think abit more about what girls want and what type of girl you are really looking to attract. You don't want a cool NT girl. Been there BIG mistake. What I am about to say sounds impossibly hard and on second thoughts could be fore you. If you calm down and try to make friend ships with girls with similur interests to you with out trying to go for a relationship as soon as possible things may work out happening faster than if you had just been trying to get with any girl that comes along as fast as possible. Plus I still think keeping really fit is a big one. Increase your phisical attractivness and a girl will be more willing to consider you as a partner.

Ok theres my 2 cents worth on this topic


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06 Nov 2005, 10:25 pm

MindOfOrderedChaos wrote:
Sonic I feel sorry for you you are trying to reach out and Happeh hijacked your thread. This thing about police stings is completely paranioded and if Happeh did have some thing genuine to worry about with a police sting then it would be because Happeh is the one that wants to meet with 12-14 year olds. Other wise even if by some werid twist on things sonic happened to be a police officer which I would say theres only a 1 in a million chance of that then its still none of Happeh bussienss and any one who met up with a with the officer should be caught.

Happeh I will say in future when you are thinking the cops are mysterisly going to bust some one just think for second. Do I care if they get busted? Who am I really helping if I stop them getting busted? And what will people say if im completely wrong or saying something that sounds insain?

Cause your risking sounding a bit paranioded here seriously.


On another note What this thread on the topic that this thread should be on.

I had to deal with what you are dealing with sonic in the past. I don't think I have much comforting to say execpt for its just because of this point of your life that relation ships with girls seems more important than they really are. And when you are older you will calm down and be able to think abit more about what girls want and what type of girl you are really looking to attract. You don't want a cool NT girl. Been there BIG mistake. What I am about to say sounds impossibly hard and on second thoughts could be fore you. If you calm down and try to make friend ships with girls with similur interests to you with out trying to go for a relationship as soon as possible things may work out happening faster than if you had just been trying to get with any girl that comes along as fast as possible. Plus I still think keeping really fit is a big one. Increase your phisical attractivness and a girl will be more willing to consider you as a partner.

Ok theres my 2 cents worth on this topic


okay first I must say, THANK YOU ALL FOR HELPING ME I REALLY APRECIATE IT :P and I'm sorry I was a little imotional yesterday... okal okay REALLY imotional.
and second could someone tell me how to post a pic of yourself I want you guys to at least see who the heck your talking to, and maybe that might clear things up with Happeh... hopefully OH and make it a good explenation on how to post a pic I'm not good with hardware :oops:


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06 Nov 2005, 10:28 pm

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Woah there horseys! Sonic, no one wants you to leave sweetheart, and we don't hate you at all. How old are you anyway? I suppose I assumed that you were somewhere around about 12-14 yourself. If that's the case, don't stress yourself out, you have PLENTY of time ahead of you to find a girlfriend. Perhaps it's best if you just stick to trying to make friends for now, and let things happen without trying to make them happen?

And Happeh, I understand that you have seen an article and are wanting to be careful of police stings, but take a moment to consider. Firstly, in my humble opinion, any adult that makes a time to meet up with a child IS suspicious, and it is probably a good thing that they are being asked questions. Even if their motives are innocent, most adults have more sense than to just meet up with a kid from online and expect to not get any questions. Secondly, police stings of your description are most likely to pretend to be female, as there is a much bigger problem with male offenders than there is with female. Thirdly, I don't see any specific reason for you to suspect that Sonic is anything other than who he says he is, bearing in mind that as far as I have read, he hasn't even stated his name. Such cognitive leaps can be incredibly hurtful, and they can be made all over the place. I would like to use an example. I could pick up on the fact that you are very suspicious about police stings, and I could then propose that this is because you are a convicted offender who has had past experience with such stings and thus is out for revenge on the police. Please don't get me wrong, I am by no means suggesting that you are guilty of this, and I don't think you are for a minute, I am simply saying that anyone can make an assumption about anyone, but most likely it will be inaccurate and serve only to upset people.

So... might I suggest that we all take each other on face value? The worst that happens is that... well, now that I mention it, the worst that could happen for me would be if I single-handedly caused the apocalypse and lived, but there is just another perfect example of being irrational! :lol:

I'm 13 by the way :D


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07 Nov 2005, 8:15 am

sonic wrote:

okay first I must say, THANK YOU ALL FOR HELPING ME I REALLY APRECIATE IT :P and I'm sorry I was a little imotional yesterday... okal okay REALLY imotional.
and second could someone tell me how to post a pic of yourself I want you guys to at least see who the heck your talking to, and maybe that might clear things up with Happeh... hopefully OH and make it a good explenation on how to post a pic I'm not good with hardware :oops:


Here's the thread where Wpians geneally post pics... http://wrongplanet.net/modules.php?name ... pic&t=1097

And try reposting your request WITH YOUR AGE (for context, to prevent a repeat of paranoia) on this thread, if you haven't already: http://wrongplanet.net/modules.php?name ... topic&t=62



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10 Nov 2005, 4:08 am

sonic

I believe You some people might make the wrong assumptions but remember we are just humans after all. See You have friends here at the Wrong the Planet. Just so You know I am just one friend too.


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15 Nov 2005, 3:35 am

hey sonic! :P
Happeh isnt being very nice, but dont take it personally. Im not in your age range, but I can tell ya that any girl that would push a pizza in your face has more issues than we can count. Just know dude that you are welcome here!
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note to Happeh.... you should be ashamed for making sonic feel so bad.....