Do you feel the opposite sex may not be interested.....

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And how do you know that? What factual evidence do you base the statement "There's someone out there for everyone" on?

I dont have factual evidence of course but I truly believe this

Reality is what you make.

Then it's an illogical superstition.

The world wasn't "flat" simply because people believed it was back in medieval times.

Put it this way.. your head creates your own world

So, in other words, you're saying that "there's an imaginary person out there for everyone"? OK.

No but if thats what you want to believe then believe it

I can say yes to the OP... When I walk, I tend to jiggle a bit... all this extra weight doesn't help much though...

My friends have told me I walk funny, and that they recognize it from way far off, but I have no idea what they are talking about and they can't demonstrate it for me, so whatever.
I seriously doubt people are like "He walks weird, stay away from him" though. That's like saying "I won't talk to a guy that's wearing a hat".

Unfortunately there really isn't such a thing as a soul mate, which seems to be what your suggesting.
It all comes down to who your willing to spend your life with, how far you will settle in return for not being single, and how many people you meet/know.

There are ~50/50 in the world of male/female but that doesn't mean that everyone gets a partner, or that there is "someone for everyone" as there are lots of singles that simply don't find their mate, and for every single girl there's either a single guy or a guy with 2 women (statistically).

In short: If your not picky, your very willing to settle, and you know a decent # of women, then sure...there is someone out there for you.

I think sometimes confidence (or lack of it) can be shown by how one walks. Maybe that has something to do with it? Most people are attracted to people who have a good enough measure of confidence. Generally speaking.

Some members of the opposite sex are interested. They all just have the problem of being unintelligent, smaelly, unattractive, and being kleptos.

I think my problems include:

1) I often find myself picking teeth, cracking knuckles, etc. in public
2) I have a rather nasal voice
3) I'm rather tall and have a bit of a disproportioned body
4) Low self-esteem...

The only women I've been interested in where simply because of the way they moved... this was the first attraction... of course I got to know them and that was just an addition to everything else.