Am left the family home at twenty[?],am would be still there,if it wasnt for the social services.
mum was full time carer,but also stole all the benefits off am as she was the person in charge of account,she is an alcoholic and spent it all on alcohol,when she had no alcohol she was nice,but when she was drunk she was violent and abusive to am.
the SS/LD team wanted am moved out into institution placement and police involved about mum,but mum told am she would never allow to see the cats again if allowed the police to come.
even though it was torture moving out and living away from home,am now realise how much better it is that move out earlier,rather than letting the routine keep building with parents,until they're too old to help,am don't think am would cope with such a move then.
am stay with them every weekend,and have done since left the family home.
am do a lot more with staff than family,and am also get on a lot better with dad since moving out.
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>severely autistic.
>>the residential autist;
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blogging from the view of an ex institutionalised autism/ID activist now in community care.
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