Autistic Empathy versus Neurotypical Empathy

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Who is more empathetic? (and of course, give the reason). Personally and contrary to what most NTs would like us to believe, I feel auties are far more empathetic then the average NT because we deal with the fomer's abuse all the time (as well as suspicion, paranoia, and complete and utter alienation and marginilization).

(and besides I doubt many auties would commit such atrocious things as the Holocaust, apartheid, and slavery).

Samuel Johnson was asked who is smarter, a man or a woman. His response: "Which man, and which woman?" Same idea as to who is more empathetic: Which Aspie, and which NT?

I'd say aspies are more empathetic towards animals, not so much towards other people though so I voted for NTs.

your nearly there.

As in general tend to display innapropriate expressions of emotion.

so either too much or too little.

so soem AS will really feel for an animal in pain and distress but seem oblivious to someone locked up in jail for 27 years, wrongly, and then gets released and ends apharteid.
it is the incomplete abilty to regulate or modulate emotions that is a sign of AS, not lack of emotion as is generally considered by some.

too much or too little. rarely just "right"

NTs of course. "Lack of empathy" is one of the diagnostic criteria.

I chose autistics and if you wonder why, just wiki empathy and read about it.

NTs on average.

BUT: people with certain backgrounds in which they are forced to deal with some hard emotional stuff can learn a great deal of empathy, both AS and NT. The empathy of aspies is unique however, and can fill in a gap that others may not understand.

I personally believe I am more empathetic than most NTs. Then again, I also believe I have learned better social skills than most NTs. So my case is not typical aspergers in my opinion. But no individual is "typical".

I didn't vote. I don't know. I think I'm very empathic towards others but the level of associated emotion varies. Sometimes I can be very emotional and other times people have said I'm cold and unfeeling. As donkey says it doesn't seem to be the amount of empathy more the erratic nature of it.

I think maybe Aspie empathy is more "of the head" than "of the heart" - so we maybe feel things more at an intellectual level than an emotional level?

I feel weird when people care more about animals than people. I've known people who are like this and they are neurotypical.

Perhaps I am empathetic, but I don't know when I am being empathetic because I am unable to realize what it is.

Also seeing as I don't know any aspies, I can't really answer this question.

I am an autie and I am more compassionate and empathetic than most of the testosterone NT guys my age that I know.

Sorry, I can't remember which WP members said this but I think it's a brilliant quote. I use it in presentations I give about Aspergers'.

Slow, there are a lot of people on these forums that seem to hold the view that NT's are the " bad guys " and we are shallow, irresponsible, untrustworthy etc.. personally I am getting pretty tired of these type of posts myself. I work with children and families that have ASD ( along with other disabilities ) .. and every time I log in and see something like that .. I think " here we go again" Why am I bothering to do the work I do, if this is the view that the people I work with hold ?
I am on the verge of ceasing to contribute to the forums over posts like this, I am quite frankly tired of the " NT " bashing here.