I'm here looking for answers. Trying to understand the male Aspie mind and how to communicate better. While I'm here, I try to help by offering a female NT perspective, even if if it is a bit aged.
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Joined: 5 Apr 2007 Age: 41 Gender: Male Posts: 11,038 Location: London
15 Oct 2008, 6:52 pm
Butterflair wrote:
I'm here looking for answers. Trying to understand the male Aspie mind and how to communicate better. While I'm here, I try to help by offering a female NT perspective, even if if it is a bit aged.
What is? Your perspective of NT females? How old are you?
Sorry, I didn't word that right. I am an NT female so I like to offer up my own experience or how we think. We're not all the same. I'm in the over 40 group.
_________________ No matter what your age, you don't need to change the world to find love, sometimes all that has to change is you. Be open to the possibilities.
Joined: 5 Apr 2007 Age: 41 Gender: Male Posts: 11,038 Location: London
15 Oct 2008, 7:10 pm
Just step back a bit, back a bit further, a bit more...oh down the chute
Yes I realise the NT are not the same. I don't really use NT to describe anyone in particular more as a quick way of saying non ASD. Really there is no such thing.
Joined: 11 Apr 2007 Age: 71 Gender: Female Posts: 2,897 Location: Vancouver not BC, Washington not DC
16 Oct 2008, 11:00 am
Lotusblossom has a point. Some of us are unlikable. I know that the only man who would have thought of marrying me was my husband. He's had a number of men tell him that they are glad they aren't married to me.
Joined: 13 Jan 2008 Age: 45 Gender: Female Posts: 2,994
16 Oct 2008, 2:00 pm
lelia wrote:
Lotusblossom has a point. Some of us are unlikable. I know that the only man who would have thought of marrying me was my husband. He's had a number of men tell him that they are glad they aren't married to me.
This is definately my experience..... Most men are glad they are not married to me!