Embarresing Situation!

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I used to fany the pants of this girl at my old college for over a year. Well anyway at the beggining one of our lessons togher in colllege I asked her nicely "Did you have a nice weekend", she then immediatly replied "Yeah it was fine". She then rolled her eyes back and looked at her friend. What does this mean.

I would really appreciate some answers to this question?

On a side note this happened only when I started to get to know her.

It means she is a stuck-up, shallow, spoiled brat.Sorry.

Thanks Rushfanaic for your comment. I really don't understand why more people are not answering this question?

Caddy b***h who only cares about her self. Her daddy probably bought her everything she ever owned, including those fake boobs.
Girls only do that kind of s**t if they think your dorky/ a loser, or want to look cool in front of there friends.

Coulden't have said it better myself airbourne

Move along, good man, life awaits you! There are far more wonderful girls out there with better personalities waiting..keep your head held high!

These. I'd also like to add she's probably got some image issues, and you happened to be a stepping stone on her way to feeling a lot more awesome. Don't worry, I'm assured she's dying inside.

Don't take it personally.

Or she could just do it to feel good and have no problem inside. I know people who just "do that" because they have no conscious.

The way he described it, that sounds very unlikely. She was making a show to her friends, that's acceptance-seeking. I've seen it before, and they were some sad girls. There's lack of conscience, and there's just being malicious to defend the ego. I really think that'd have to be the latter.

It's all part of being spoiled; kids who grow up smothered have a lack of self, little sense of their own identity, and can feel empty. All sorts of social compensation follow.

There's a semi-humorous expression to describe this: she's just not that into you. Respond by not talking to her at all. Don't ask questions (except when you absolutely need to), don't try to start a conversation, don't even say hi. You may acknowledge her by a polite nod, but don't to anything beyond that. If she doesn't try to talk to you, then unfortunately, it means that she wasn't attracted to you in the first place, and you should forget about all this and move on. However, if she does try to talk to you, then it means she was alarmed by you pulling away. In this case, gradually start acting more friendly toward her (in other words, don't start acting needy). Then wait and see.

That true in allot of aspects I guess. I live in an area full of a bunch of rich kids, believe me when I mention that so-and-so is an ass to a friend or my parents or something I get "Oh so and so's dad owns *Insert the most fancy and expensive place to own here*". Allot of these kids are empty but allot think they are better than others for just having more money, its not that there empty, its just there a bunch of elitist ass holes who think there better than everyone and they enjoy trashing others because it makes them feel even better. On the other hand there are guys that scream "Im in secure with my self so Im going to trash and bully you" of course I always bust them on that very bluntly and I get "*Moves eyes around awkwardly Wtf are you talking about?!". But I do understand what you mean.

Ok everybody know in the room is going to call me a hipocrit and probably turn on me. Well a few months after the girl I was trying to talk to rolled her eyes back when i spoke to her, well I kind of did the same thing to another girl that was trying to talk to me becuase I have a big ego myself and am quite spoilt and live in a big house etc

Last edited by Jamesy on 04 Dec 2008, 3:43 pm, edited 1 time in total.

Christ, aren't we crucifying this girl a little prematurely?

John your sticking up for this girl just becuase you think I am a troll. Amit it.

I'm not sure how one goes about amitting something, but I'm not about to admit it either. I no longer think you're a troll, but a girl being bitchy once seems like no reason for people to damn her this harshly. She was rude, yeah. Doesn't mean she's some horrible, fake-titted, spoiled c**t, though.

I think the above posts were exaggerating a bit probably.

But all things considered she's probably not the kind of girl you want to be involved with.