BREAKING: Autistic Student Bullied In School, Parents Sue

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09 Jan 2009, 10:28 pm

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Well that's true sadly but I still can't see it doing anything in the way of improving the treatment of AS people.

Minusing most of the school bullies would have a significant impact. Or have you moved onto the stage after school?



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10 Jan 2009, 7:21 pm

I finished school last year.



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10 Jan 2009, 7:59 pm

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I finished school last year.

Have you spotted that the same kind of people are still around - just a tad more subtle.



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10 Jan 2009, 8:30 pm

Not really. Some people are still d*cks but I didn't really expect anything different. There isn't the forced socialisation that was in school though so I find it a lot better. Not to say that people still can't be ignorant or irritating jerks.



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10 Jan 2009, 8:35 pm

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Not really. Some people are still d*cks but I didn't really expect anything different. There isn't the forced socialisation that was in school though so I find it a lot better. Not to say that people still can't be ignorant or irritating jerks.

Try my uni - its full of the aristocrats. Which uni do you go to?



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10 Jan 2009, 9:04 pm

I start at the University of South Australia in a few weeks. Where do you go?



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10 Jan 2009, 9:22 pm

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I start at the University of South Australia in a few weeks. Where do you go?

http://uncyclopedia.wikia.com/wiki/The_ ... _of_Durham



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11 Jan 2009, 7:53 am

LOL. Hopefully it's not that bad where I am. In any case I'll find out pretty soon. Looks like we kinda hijacked this thread.



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11 Jan 2009, 9:55 am

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LOL. Hopefully it's not that bad where I am. In any case I'll find out pretty soon. Looks like we kinda hijacked this thread.

Only in England could you have something like the place - somehow despite being led by donkeys we come really high up on league tables. You should be alright in Aussie.



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12 Jan 2009, 6:24 am

Good for them. The day where a teacher will never look the other way when bullying, physical, verbal or emotional, occurs is the day when school will actually become enjoyable and safe for people who might otherwise do well in it. Really, a school that consistently permits bullying should not be allowed to remain open, and bullies should be treated like criminals and/or expelled from school. After all, it's absolute BS that if you're an adult who hurts another person, it's assault, battery and/or child abuse, but if you're a child who hurts other people you're "helping them to build character" and "toughening them up." Injustice and crime are just that, no matter what the age of the perpetrator. Especially in high school, they've had plenty of time to learn how to decently treat other people, and by that point they are consciously choosing to do otherwise.

Don't even get me started on TEACHERS who abuse their students....

Unfortunately, as someone else touched on briefly, school shootings don't get it through people's thick heads what problems bullying causes. It's always Marilyn Manson, South Park, Grand Theft Auto, death metal or something else. What's the most perverse thing, actually, is how after Columbine, teachers and administrators across the country, as I heard and saw, took this to mean that ALL outsiders and geeks who are the problem. Bullying was MORE condoned post-Columbine than pre- in many places, because someone who struck back against their tormentors (mind you, actually going out of your way to hurt someone weaker than you who had done no wrong was still A-okay) was immediately punished and viewed under scrutiny, sometimes for years. Just sick.



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13 Jan 2009, 12:04 pm

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I bet that what happens is that the school district will quietly pay off the family, make sure there is a clause in the settlement where the family is not to talk about it, and then it will be business as normal for the next child.

I have seen cases where the teachers themselves were the bullies so I am in no way surprised by this. :roll:


Didn't the O'Reilly Factor bring up a case concerning something similar and got a teacher suspended by dragging this into the light.

I've had my own instances of this never to the point of wanting to kill myself, I had an incident in high school between an instructor and myself where I ended up being sent to the office because I got into an argument with him cause he said I got a zero for using a word processor for an essay question which was clearly spelled out in my accomodations.

While the Assistant Principle was glad I had been sent down to the office before the argument had gotten more volatile, I wasn't the one that ended up in trouble, though. The Assistant Principle wrote a letter to the Instructor blasting him for his behavior. The instructor later tried to cover it up saying he was only joking, but if it was joke it certainly wasn't funny.



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14 Jan 2009, 9:57 pm

I think that suing is saying to people if you bully others this is what will happen if you do. How many kids (ASD or not) have been mentally affected by this and nothing been done? I say hurt the wallets and the bulling will stopped.



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14 Jan 2009, 10:17 pm

I've made that threat. After being bullied to the point where I hit out at someone and the school did nothing about it I seriously considered it. Sadly nobody would allow a 13 year old to do that. But I still haven't recovered from it.

Those people who were bullying me have records for it. Everybody knows what they do, and everybody turns a blind eye. Sadly, I think that (at my school at least) the teacher's hands are tied.

They need to do something, and if suing works then fine by me.



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19 Jan 2009, 3:26 pm

BokeKaeru wrote:
Good for them. The day where a teacher will never look the other way when bullying, physical, verbal or emotional, occurs is the day when school will actually become enjoyable and safe for people who might otherwise do well in it. Really, a school that consistently permits bullying should not be allowed to remain open, and bullies should be treated like criminals and/or expelled from school. After all, it's absolute BS that if you're an adult who hurts another person, it's assault, battery and/or child abuse, but if you're a child who hurts other people you're "helping them to build character" and "toughening them up." Injustice and crime are just that, no matter what the age of the perpetrator. Especially in high school, they've had plenty of time to learn how to decently treat other people, and by that point they are consciously choosing to do otherwise.

Don't even get me started on TEACHERS who abuse their students....

Unfortunately, as someone else touched on briefly, school shootings don't get it through people's thick heads what problems bullying causes. It's always Marilyn Manson, South Park, Grand Theft Auto, death metal or something else. What's the most perverse thing, actually, is how after Columbine, teachers and administrators across the country, as I heard and saw, took this to mean that ALL outsiders and geeks who are the problem. Bullying was MORE condoned post-Columbine than pre- in many places, because someone who struck back against their tormentors (mind you, actually going out of your way to hurt someone weaker than you who had done no wrong was still A-okay) was immediately punished and viewed under scrutiny, sometimes for years. Just sick.



very true... i had a teacher who would kind of turn a blind eye when the kids in the class bullied me... but when i decided to make a joke back... i got f*****g suspended... f**k teachers...i dont f*****g regret pulling a knife on that kid who was talkin s**t... no one f***s with me no more... idk... i wish there was a better way to sort this s**t out... but f**k it obviously there aint... and even today... i can walk around and watch the freakin prinicple turn a blind eye as soon as a bully starts his thing... but as soon as the bullied person strikes back... the poor kid who just wanted the bully to leave him alone is f****d... its almost as if the prinicple and the bullies all sleep with eachother as a deal... idk all i know is that if mass murder became legal... i'd be the first one totin that ak-47


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23 Jan 2009, 2:11 am

What I cannot understand is why criminal charges weren't filed against the bullies? This should have been stopped a long time ago.


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