Flismflop wrote:
People who don't know me have always thought I was younger than I really am. When I was 26, a 14 year old told me that she and I would make a convincing couple. Last year, I was a year older than White House press secretary Dana Perino is now, yet two people couldn't determine if I was still a teen or not.
I'm not sure it's appearance that affords this to an aspie (although I'm not old enough to have wrinkles yet). It might be something more to do with vocal inflections which differ from anything that NTs are accustomed to hearing.
That could certainly be part of it, but I think the major factor is still physical appearnce. Something that may cause aspies to look younger due to our behavior though is our choice of dress. Since we're not as aware of fashion as NTs it's likely that some of us dress in a style that's actually more characteristic of a younger age group without knowing it. Then there's other factors, such as body fat (skinny people tend to look younger, especially for guys), height (no one is going to mistake a 6'3" person for a child, though a 4'3" person may have problems), and facial structure. Also, gender can play a role since females retain a lot of juvenile physical characteristics (at least in the face) and have a much higher risk than males of looking substantially younger than they really are (especially if they have small breasts and hips). Whether such traits are affected by AS or not is something I'm not aware of.