What type of people do you feel attracted to?

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I am most interested in interesting people, intelligent, people who THINK about the world and our place in it. I have a very difficult time with superficial people; unfortunately, most of the men I meet these days seem to be superficial, so it´s hard for me at the moment to feel really interested in anyone...(although, I do find most of the people here on Wrong Planet interesting). Actually, I don´t know if the men I´m meeting really are that superficial and uninteresting- (that would be sad, for them)- or if that´s the facade they put up, because they think women want them to be something different. I am much more interested in someone I can have a deep, intelligent conversation with, than I am with light banter and flirting....unfortunately, I seem to be an anomaly in this respect.

I also like people who are independent. I need my space at times, so I need someone who isn´t too stressful or needy. Don´t think I would like cold and aloof, though; for me, a perfect balance would be someone that I can feel a close and intense connection with, but still have our own space. Needless to say, I haven´t found this ideal person yet...

Unfortunatly there are just as many superficial women as there are men.

Gneer, so if it is common to hope those qualities, then I guess it is of course, important we can live those qualities as well.

I keep tabs on myself, by making sure, a want is based in reality, by seeing if I could honestly fulfill and happily live with myself wearing the wants I seek.

None. I seem to repel people.

I am most attacted by those who are intelligent and looking for new ideas. If someone can share those ideas as concisely as possible, so much the better.

Mainly kind and friendly people. People who are rarely ever mean.

Emotional, Creative types

I do not prefer a particular kind of people.

Fictional ones