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Gaya
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22 Mar 2009, 8:54 pm

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I have more questions than feedback. Why are you lonely?


Well, in the relationship I have now I sometimes don't see my boyfriend very much. He also does not have the same beliefs as me, in that he does not think monogamy is a good idea. He can't get laid by anyone else, so I don't have to worry much, but sometimes I just want to feel like I'm "enough" for him. We often have a wonderful time when we spend time together, but there have been dramatic moments that have felt awful. We don't always get along harmoniously, and sometimes I worry I'll chase him off. It's all pretty typical relationship nueroticism. I'm also lonely because I don't live around very many of my friends; the only people who ever call me socially are my boyfriend and friends who live miles away.

So that's why I'm lonely.



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22 Mar 2009, 9:18 pm

Gaya wrote:
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I have more questions than feedback. Why are you lonely?


Well, in the relationship I have now I sometimes don't see my boyfriend very much. He also does not have the same beliefs as me, in that he does not think monogamy is a good idea. He can't get laid by anyone else, so I don't have to worry much, but sometimes I just want to feel like I'm "enough" for him. We often have a wonderful time when we spend time together, but there have been dramatic moments that have felt awful. We don't always get along harmoniously, and sometimes I worry I'll chase him off. It's all pretty typical relationship nueroticism. I'm also lonely because I don't live around very many of my friends; the only people who ever call me socially are my boyfriend and friends who live miles away.

So that's why I'm lonely.


Gaya's also feels lonely because her pet rat died..


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