GoatOnFire
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07 Apr 2009, 3:20 pm
In my experience I've actually found that the ugly chicks are actually more likely to have a boyfriend. When I was still looking I was once told to lower my expectations and came to the discovery that damn near all of the ugly ones were already taken. I went on facebook to investigate and did some browsing and noticed that the less physically attractive a girl was, the more likely she was to not be single. Maybe it's because ugly chicks are easier to approach for most guys. Maybe that's just affected by my view of attractiveness which may be different from other guys'.
So if you're a single female and unhappy about it, take heart. Look on the bright side, it probably means that you're hot. 
Arrogance is bliss. Instead of being jealous of others' arrogance, just become arrogant yourself. 
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07 Apr 2009, 3:56 pm
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07 Apr 2009, 4:16 pm
07 Apr 2009, 5:39 pm
GoatOnFire wrote:
In my experience I've actually found that the ugly chicks are actually more likely to have a boyfriend. When I was still looking I was once told to lower my expectations and came to the discovery that damn near all of the ugly ones were already taken. I went on facebook to investigate and did some browsing and noticed that the less physically attractive a girl was, the more likely she was to not be single. Maybe it's because ugly chicks are easier to approach for most guys. Maybe that's just affected by my view of attractiveness which may be different from other guys'.
So if you're a single female and unhappy about it, take heart. Look on the bright side, it probably means that you're hot.
Arrogance is bliss. Instead of being jealous of others' arrogance, just become arrogant yourself.
So if you're a single female and unhappy about it, take heart. Look on the bright side, it probably means that you're hot.
Arrogance is bliss. Instead of being jealous of others' arrogance, just become arrogant yourself.
It really depends on the age. How old are you?
In the teen years, anything with a vagina is popular (so pretty much any girl can have a boyfriend if she really really wants one), because guys are desperate for sex. I was always amazed at some of the girls who thought they were in the same tier as I was -- I think fat and ugly girls might just have high self esteem because in the teen years, it's a seller's market. And if they're fat or ugly and trying to prove something to themselves (e.g., that they are valued), odds are that they will get a BF just to feel better, vs. a girl with better looks who knows that she's pretty and wanted. Get my drift? Pretty chicks get solicited all the time, so they don't need a guy to make them feel better. Fat and ugly chicks know they had better strike while the iron is hot, so they are more likely to be aggressive about getting a BF. They try harder, so they get BF's. Pretty girls don't try hard, because they often don't have that overwhelming desire to have one (until much later, when they want to get married and have kids).
Fast forward to the 20s and later -- fatties and ugly chix, not so popular anymore.
Darian_C
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07 Apr 2009, 7:22 pm
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08 Apr 2009, 4:47 pm
Darian_C wrote:
If you want to be able to 'see' which girls are more attractive and which are not you could always get a chicken or rooster. Chickens have the same 'eye' for attractiveness as males do (about 99.8% of the time chickens and males agree on the hottest girl) and will often roam and scope the room for the most attractive girl then they will proceed towards her and stay there. Once this happens you can then make your observations and see if you can find how accurate the trend is. Most places don't allow animals however, so this is something you should do outside, where a wandering chicken would be less noticed.
Where do you learn this stuff??
I have to try this! I'm not sure how people would react if I walked into a club carrying a squawking chicken, but it would be so worth it. Assuming I didn't get kicked out first, but then again, I have been kicked out for way more ridiculous things before (ie. falling asleep cause it's so darn exhausting in there with all the noise and people and lights etc. It's ridiculous how they automatically assume you're drunk off your face if you fall asleep (without even giving you a chance to speak up for yourself) and I had only had my usual one standard drink all night!)
Sorry, think I hijacked another thread.
09 Apr 2009, 9:26 am
09 Apr 2009, 9:46 am
billsmithglendale wrote:
GoatOnFire wrote:
In my experience I've actually found that the ugly chicks are actually more likely to have a boyfriend. When I was still looking I was once told to lower my expectations and came to the discovery that damn near all of the ugly ones were already taken. I went on facebook to investigate and did some browsing and noticed that the less physically attractive a girl was, the more likely she was to not be single. Maybe it's because ugly chicks are easier to approach for most guys. Maybe that's just affected by my view of attractiveness which may be different from other guys'.
So if you're a single female and unhappy about it, take heart. Look on the bright side, it probably means that you're hot.
Arrogance is bliss. Instead of being jealous of others' arrogance, just become arrogant yourself.
So if you're a single female and unhappy about it, take heart. Look on the bright side, it probably means that you're hot.
Arrogance is bliss. Instead of being jealous of others' arrogance, just become arrogant yourself.
It really depends on the age. How old are you?
In the teen years, anything with a vagina is popular (so pretty much any girl can have a boyfriend if she really really wants one), because guys are desperate for sex. I was always amazed at some of the girls who thought they were in the same tier as I was -- I think fat and ugly girls might just have high self esteem because in the teen years, it's a seller's market. And if they're fat or ugly and trying to prove something to themselves (e.g., that they are valued), odds are that they will get a BF just to feel better, vs. a girl with better looks who knows that she's pretty and wanted. Get my drift? Pretty chicks get solicited all the time, so they don't need a guy to make them feel better. Fat and ugly chicks know they had better strike while the iron is hot, so they are more likely to be aggressive about getting a BF. They try harder, so they get BF's. Pretty girls don't try hard, because they often don't have that overwhelming desire to have one (until much later, when they want to get married and have kids).
Fast forward to the 20s and later -- fatties and ugly chix, not so popular anymore.
A very insightful observation. You are absolutely right, why do attractive women need to try? They already have enough guys hitting on them, and they have their picks of the prime cuts. As you said with unattractive gals, there is more evident feeling of an urgency to get a bf. I wouldn't say that unattractive girls always have bfs, as GoatsonFire stated.
I see it in this manner. Nice guys, confident guys, jerk guys, every kind of guy practically, is looking for the most attractive females he can obtain, and that is what they strive for. They always have their eyes set on obtaining the best they can. Even if they are rejected by the girls they seek, they will still go after them, and ignore the girls that are deemed physically unattractive, after all, I supposed the mentality is that guys don't want to go for girls they find physically unattractive because all guys have a sense of self worth romantically, and they feel that "settling" for something less than what they wanted is unacceptable and disappointing. I honestly believe that girls that are deemed "unattractive" due to what they look like physically or whatever, they feel like they have nothing to lose, so they will be more willing to ask out guys and push the action.
09 Apr 2009, 10:27 am
Darian_C
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12 Apr 2009, 5:40 pm
sunshower wrote:
Darian_C wrote:
If you want to be able to 'see' which girls are more attractive and which are not you could always get a chicken or rooster. Chickens have the same 'eye' for attractiveness as males do (about 99.8% of the time chickens and males agree on the hottest girl) and will often roam and scope the room for the most attractive girl then they will proceed towards her and stay there. Once this happens you can then make your observations and see if you can find how accurate the trend is. Most places don't allow animals however, so this is something you should do outside, where a wandering chicken would be less noticed.
Where do you learn this stuff??
I have to try this! I'm not sure how people would react if I walked into a club carrying a squawking chicken, but it would be so worth it. Assuming I didn't get kicked out first, but then again, I have been kicked out for way more ridiculous things before (ie. falling asleep cause it's so darn exhausting in there with all the noise and people and lights etc. It's ridiculous how they automatically assume you're drunk off your face if you fall asleep (without even giving you a chance to speak up for yourself) and I had only had my usual one standard drink all night!)
Sorry, think I hijacked another thread.
I watched another good episode of Manswers on Spike TV.
I'm sure it would be no big deal if you walked into a country bar or some rural place like that they wouldn't mind chickens (and you wouldn't carry the chicken you would just walk in with it and have it follow you). Still though, a lot of places don't allow animals, regardless of your reasons. Unless its the K-9 unit for the police or the drug sniffing dogs for the DEA for some kind of bust they probably won't allow ANY animals of ANY sort because especially in such a place everybody is drunk. Drunk people are completely unpredictable and to have them interacting with animals is another matter of sorts...
12 Apr 2009, 6:57 pm
