How often do you socialize?

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I am socializing only when doing my hobbies (sports etc.), i am not active seeking any company. Wait ... i was in pub more a month ago...

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Excuse my English, please. My real name is H*Y*M*A*N K*A*P*L*A*N

i dont socalize. and should probably at some point give it a try, maybe im good at it

After leaving school the only social contact I have with people outside my family is when my brother's friends come over. And even then it's forced and I usually just go to my room.

I have a small online social network but no RL friends and I quite like it that way.

Socializing has become more stressful than it is worth. I can safely say it has been years since I have done anything that would be considered socializing, and I find that I don't miss it at all.

Joining this website is probably the first thing I've done in all those years that could, from a certain point of view, be considered socializing. I'm still deciding whether or not to stay here.

Since I live on campus, I dont socialize that much off campus unless I go off campus with a some people which is normally nothing too special. On campus I pretty much socialize everyday with someone in most cases unless I have a lot of work. Now that Im at home, I pretty much have no face to face socialization. Some phone calls, facebook messages, occationally some emails. Yep Im a hermit.

I get together with some guys once or twice a month for board games, but that's about it.

The last year I am socialising a lot, it is tiring but I am socialising with people who share the same interest as me (scuba diving) and who are nerdy too (one has AS as well) so I am having fun. Also I live with my partner so I am not often alone but he is often playing computer games or on the internet too, we have our own studies so I can be alone as often as I want.

My typical week is:
-Monday night at 8.45pm I meet my diving friends for a coffee for about two hours
-Tuesday night I go on a dive with my diving friends, which takes from about 7pm to midnight
-Wednesday night I do not do anything, just play on the internet/games
-Thursday night I do not do anything, just play on the internet/games
-Friday every second week I go watch a movie with my diving friends (usually sci fi or something like that), the other weeks I often go to the movies with my boyfriend or we have a nice dinner
-Saturday I go diving all day with my diving friends or just by myself
-Sunday I sleep all day though sometimes I see my family for lunch or dinner.

Until I started scuba diving last year I socialised about once a week.

I go to Toastmasters for a couple of hours once a week and to my Aspergers group once a month. Other than that I don't do much socialising at all since I am no good at it. I do try though. Other than that I have my cat for company

I used to socialize quite often back in high school and my first semester of college. I socialized with many people during that time period.

Due to higher amounts of stress during my second semester, the amount of socializing dropped to nearly zero, especially from February-May.

I did a summer internship during June and I socialized quite often with the people there. However, quite a few days ended in sensory overload.

When college started back up in August, it was impossible to add socializing to my already scrunched-up schedule. I'd socialize occasionally with someone in my class, but that was it. Only last Thursday was I able to talk to a girl I had met back in high school. It went pretty well.

1. Usually I don't find people interesting.
2. After any conversation I am also likely to feel a certain amount of anxiety.
3. I am very bad at recognizing faces and forget names instantly.
4. When I have established some kind of relationship with person, a process that usually takes time, and don't see them in 3 to 4 weeks, I feel that I no longer knew them, and so try my best to avoid them.

Actually I find even posting on forums to be somewhat to social for my taste, but I do believe in challenging oneself.

Only with my family a few times a week. Outside of my family the only person I talk to is the cashier at the grocery store.

Almost never.