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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Am I making excuses by not travelling on my own ? |
| Lunella |
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Posted: 19 May 2022, 11:14 am
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Replies: 11
Views: 747
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| I used to have the same problem, I think I still have it a bit tbh I don't really like going out alone by myself without my husband anymore but I will do anyway. I think it's some kind of anxiety where you don't feel safe in case something happens and you'll be left alone to deal with it by yourself... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: [ POLL ] Pride v. Vanity; Which is More Important to You? |
| Lunella |
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Posted: 19 May 2022, 10:59 am
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Replies: 13
Views: 1,140
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| This doesn't make sense sorry, everyone has different levels of different things, the question really is do you have accurate healthy levels of pride/vanity, because if they are above the level that psychologists deem normal then you're delving into the world of narcissism or some other mental illne... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Effects of Aspergers Syndrome on Phone Calls |
| Lunella |
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Posted: 19 May 2022, 10:40 am
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Replies: 24
Views: 1,889
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| I used to work in many different IT/Network call centres before I became a network engineer - now me and my husband have our own business selling high end cars, dunno how I got here but anyway - back in these roles you would have to speak on the phone relentlessly, I remember my first phone call it ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Sharing the Aspergers Syndrome Disability with other people |
| Lunella |
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Posted: 19 May 2022, 10:27 am
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Replies: 11
Views: 907
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| The last time I shared about it I was accused of being a mental case by various different narcissists using it against me to ruin my reputation. I don't really think it's worth sharing anything about yourself if it leaves you open to attack anymore. There's far too many evil people in life that just... |
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Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion Topic: Against religious circumcision |
| Lunella |
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Posted: 01 Nov 2021, 6:58 am
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Replies: 65
Views: 3,784
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| Circumcision is quite normal as a medical reason, I know plenty of non religious people who get their boys done. I've seen it before where there's these kids who always end up being the pissy kid in school cause they weren't done and end up stinking cause they can't wash their foreskin right and it'... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Plans for next year? |
| Lunella |
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Posted: 01 Nov 2021, 6:40 am
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Replies: 20
Views: 2,689
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| We currently have a spare room above our business office so I think I'm gonna convert it into an office for myself where I can do our business accounts, might put a leather recliner sofa in there for gaming as well. I need to make the toilet more customer service friendly too, currently it's describ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Autistic couples- a great or terrible thing? |
| Lunella |
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Posted: 01 Nov 2021, 6:31 am
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Replies: 11
Views: 1,182
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| My husband is also autistic, we have a deeper level of understanding than one of us being with an NT. We run a successful car dealership family business together, work really well together as a team etc. He has never been able to mentally connect with an NT woman and has never loved the NT women pre... |
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Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion Topic: Glad I Don't Live In America. |
| Lunella |
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Posted: 01 Nov 2021, 6:10 am
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Replies: 789
Views: 22,879
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| No offence to Americans on here but America is one of the last places in the west I would want to live. The whole mentality seems to be based around selfishness and looking after number 1. Religion getting tied into so many things, even politics, seems like lunacy to outsiders. Life having such lit... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: do you think most people are bad? |
| Lunella |
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Posted: 01 Nov 2021, 5:54 am
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Replies: 62
Views: 2,219
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| I do believe there are some truly good people out there but they are in the extreme minority. I'm just trying to deal with all the negativity abuse and stress that I feel from these people. I guess our survival Instinct programs us to be incredibly selfish and that's what we are seeing with such wi... |
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Forum: News and Current Events Topic: Prince Andrew Slut Shames his teenage victim |
| Lunella |
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Posted: 01 Nov 2021, 5:37 am
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Replies: 14
Views: 1,081
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| This case is far too crazy to know what really went on to be honest, plus any chance of attacking the royals people jump at because it's been that way for years. I think if the queen knew he did it she would have stripped him of his royal rank and duties by now, the fact that it's dragging on is que... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: do you think most people are bad? |
| Lunella |
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Posted: 01 Nov 2021, 4:11 am
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Replies: 62
Views: 2,219
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| We live in a narcissistic/sociopathic society imo therefore toxic behaviour is more common than not, being on the autistic spectrum just makes you a target to these narcissistic con artists. Like NT's already find it hard enough to avoid them so when it comes to us we're like lost pretty much unless... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Are any members of WP professional System Administrators? |
| Lunella |
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Posted: 27 Oct 2021, 2:05 am
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Replies: 4
Views: 930
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| It depends what the company need you to do, some Sys Admin jobs require scripting others are basic general monitoring s**t. I used to work for an international logistics firm that needed lots of stuff, every day was a new challenge cause stuff kept changing/breaking all the time. I was even doing th... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Men are so lucky (pregnancy) |
| Lunella |
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Posted: 27 Oct 2021, 1:31 am
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Replies: 67
Views: 5,022
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| I've been pregnant before and it wasn't painful, it was more annoying than anything to be honest. You can't really do much cause the first 3 months you're basically sick as a dog and the rest you're just fat and moody. Going up/down stairs is annoying cause you're just tired but can't say it was as ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Men That Ghost Women |
| Lunella |
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Posted: 27 Oct 2021, 1:21 am
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Replies: 20
Views: 3,159
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| I think there's different types of ghosting tbh, the ones where you're not invested in the person and you've only had a minor conversation are fine but the long drawn out type ones where you've invested a lot of time are just outright narcissistic imo. That kind of behaviour is becoming normalised i... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Dog attacks. And lots of them. |
| Lunella |
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Posted: 21 Oct 2021, 2:04 pm
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Replies: 36
Views: 1,959
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| A lot of these idiots who want to look hard and go around with a big dog are usually to blame, they train the dog to be aggressive and not good around anyone. To be honest I'm starting to see a trend with dogs, it's usually the owners who just don't train them right at all and the owners usually an ... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: What makes women want sex with a man? |
| Lunella |
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Posted: 21 Oct 2021, 1:26 pm
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Replies: 280
Views: 2,220
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| Nope....can't say that I've had women fighting over me...... I feel like my relative success had lots to do with treating women like people, rather than like some alien species. I was also seen to have been involved in "alternative lifestyles"---which, to some women's consternation, turne... |
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