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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is it unfair of me to ask my gf for a prenup in this case? |
| mysterymystique |
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Posted: 20 May 2016, 4:04 pm
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| There's also a huge difference between demanding a prenup that leaves the other person with zip in the way of support upon divorce and one that says each person keeps the assets they bring into the marriage, but stuff earned/accumulated during the marriage is split if there's a divorce. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is it unfair of me to ask my gf for a prenup in this case? |
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Posted: 19 May 2016, 6:29 pm
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| Nearly half of all marriages end in divorce and pretty much everybody gets married thinking they'll be together forever and ever. So getting a prenup can be a very sensible thing to do. I 100% agree with the poster who said that that if you want a prenup, it's probably a good idea to marry a person ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is anyone lowering their standards or willing to settle? |
| mysterymystique |
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Posted: 19 May 2016, 6:22 pm
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is it unfair of me to ask my gf for a prenup in this case? |
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Posted: 19 May 2016, 1:00 pm
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| I don't think you were unreasonable in asking for a prenup. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Is it bad to enjoy a thrill of hiring escorts, not just sex? |
| mysterymystique |
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Posted: 18 May 2016, 4:19 pm
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Replies: 47
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| If you're cool with paying for sex or dating someone who does, it's your life and your call. The reverse is true for me (my call). If you one day find a proper girlfriend, you'll either have to hope she's cool with you having paid for sex or not tell her that you've hired hookers. Your life, the ris... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why do women seem so difficult to read? |
| mysterymystique |
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Posted: 17 May 2016, 10:06 pm
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Replies: 64
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| Life isn't black and white. There are many people, myself included, who simply do not have the capacity (or, frankly, energy) to tell a date exactly what I ant/expect him to do. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: He has 4 jobs..?red flag? |
| mysterymystique |
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Posted: 17 May 2016, 10:02 pm
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| Why 4 jobs? Is he cobbling 4 part-time ins together to make ends meet? |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Is it bad to enjoy a thrill of hiring escorts, not just sex? |
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Posted: 17 May 2016, 10:00 pm
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| Have you actually read any facts/studies about who sells sex in the US (where prostitution is, admittedly, illegal in most states)? That a not-insignificant number of women/girls started selling sex when they were too young to consent to it (i.e. as children aged 17 and younger)? http://m.huffpost.c... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: What do some females have against virgin males? |
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Posted: 17 May 2016, 9:51 pm
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| 5. Why does not having sex make you a better person than your peers who happen to be choosing to have consentual sex? There are a million different ways to live your life. If you don't want folks denigrating your life choices, you might want to consider not denigrating theirs. 6. If you are so damn ... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: What do some females have against virgin males? |
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Posted: 17 May 2016, 9:47 pm
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| 3. You clearly would have had sex as a teenager if you'd found a willing a girl. You seethe with anger that you didn't. That makes you an incredible hypocrite for calling non-virgin girls your age "not serious" and "superficial" for having had age appropriate dating experiences y... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: What do some females have against virgin males? |
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Posted: 17 May 2016, 9:40 pm
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| 1. Why is a girl "narrow-minded" if she doesn't want to have sex with a virgin? Wouldn't the virgin guy be "narrow-minded", seeing as he clearly hasn't wanted to have sex with anyone ? Double standard much? 2. If a guy hasn't had sex by his, say, mid-20s, there is probably a reas... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Is it bad to enjoy a thrill of hiring escorts, not just sex? |
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Posted: 17 May 2016, 3:15 pm
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| If you're into escorts and they're legal in your area, good for you, I guess. However, I wouldn't date anyone who'd paid for sex, ever. Paying for sex is icky and the odds that the person they paid to have sex with isn't doing it entirely of his/her free will is just way too high. (There are definit... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: What do some females have against virgin males? |
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Posted: 17 May 2016, 3:10 pm
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| I can't imagine not knowing, at least a bit, about my partner's relationship history. I don't need (nor would I ask for or tell) a list of every relationship they've had or person they've had sex with, but knowing they've had only two serious relationships or had a wild period in college is kind of ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why are women into me at first, and then they lose interest? |
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Posted: 17 May 2016, 3:04 pm
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| I think it's just part of the dating process - particularly if you're dating online, because chemistry doesn't really work via text/email. I've been with my boyfriend (met online) for a year, but during the year or so I actively online dated, only about 1 in 6 or 8 first dates were fun enough to war... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why do women seem so difficult to read? |
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Posted: 17 May 2016, 2:58 pm
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| My suggestion would be to pay more attention to what a girl DOES than what she SAYS, i.e. if she spends every weekend training for a marThon, she probably isn't really a low-energy couch potato. People DO things that are important to them, eg call when they say they will. Not doing things is also a ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Cheating and competitive behavior |
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Posted: 17 May 2016, 2:55 pm
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Replies: 28
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| You sign yourself up for a series of, say, six lectures on New World Wines and talk to the other people who signed up. You've presumably got an interest in wine in common! |
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