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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Forming thoughts into coherent sentences |
| Snowcone |
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Posted: 22 Oct 2018, 1:25 am
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Replies: 10
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| What happens if you try not to control it too much? Like try to not think about how to do it. Resist urges to think too much about it. Let me know if that helps anything? For me it appears to be helpful. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Anger issues |
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Posted: 05 Oct 2017, 5:48 pm
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Replies: 2
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| I feel like my biggest problem with aspergers is that I often feel anger towards people for no apparent reason, and the more I think about it the worse it gets. It's like I get angrier the more I try to understand why or the more I try to get in touch with it. All this happens when everything is nor... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Do you think that you have an unconscious? |
| Snowcone |
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Posted: 02 Oct 2017, 4:12 am
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Replies: 42
Views: 1,355
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It appears that you have already realized that you cannot win by using logic, nice  |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: You think the color of your smartphone can distract you? |
| Snowcone |
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Posted: 01 Oct 2017, 5:38 pm
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Replies: 5
Views: 363
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| It may in some cases have an annoying effect, but I think most people aren't much aware of it and are able to enjoy what is on the screen with full potential. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Do you think that you have an unconscious? |
| Snowcone |
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Posted: 01 Oct 2017, 5:22 pm
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Replies: 42
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| I would argue that will, in Schopenhauer's usage of the term, does not equal unconscious, as it relates to us humans. I made my own research and i came to understanding that Will does equal unconscious. Since this is bollocks I can already say that there is no reasonable journal which has an articl... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Do you think that you have an unconscious? |
| Snowcone |
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Posted: 01 Oct 2017, 5:03 pm
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Replies: 42
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| It is the case for both people with autism and non autism that the brain processes information that we aren't conscious about. I also think that referring to people who do not suffer from autism as neurotypical is very counter productive and makes the autism more severe. That is because trust and i... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Do you think that you have an unconscious? |
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Posted: 01 Oct 2017, 3:48 pm
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Replies: 42
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| It is the case for both people with autism and non autism that the brain processes information that we aren't conscious about. I also think that referring to people who do not suffer from autism as neurotypical is very counter productive and makes the autism more severe. That is because trust and in... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Can you have problems nonverbally and not know it? |
| Snowcone |
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Posted: 28 Sep 2017, 4:10 am
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Replies: 8
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| I think if you believe that you are good with berbal ques you will be better. Even NTs miss tons of ques. What people care about is the bigger picture anyway. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Ways to mess with NTs |
| Snowcone |
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Posted: 28 Sep 2017, 4:00 am
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Replies: 22
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| If your prime goal is to mess around with other people you aren't going to achieve anything good. I would recommend to try to establish trust and kindness, but also be desensitized from if other people don't happen to think you are cool. In fact that's a start to becoming a more attractive person. T... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How to go about getting a boyfriend? |
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Posted: 22 Dec 2016, 3:58 am
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Replies: 58
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: is body language enough to make people hate you? |
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Posted: 21 Dec 2016, 6:18 pm
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Replies: 46
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| Yeah I can't even be in a work/school environment without people hating me because I refuse to make eye contact or stare uncomfortably at their faces. I can understand why people who dont know me well would be upset by the fact I don't look at the person when talking or I move around the room a lot... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: is body language enough to make people hate you? |
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Posted: 21 Dec 2016, 6:15 pm
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Replies: 46
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| I noticed that people always seem to hate me, even when I'm not talking. Is body language enough to make people hate you? It's actually about the whole picture. It is possible to be liked with a bad body language if you can present yourself in a way that people can relate to in a positive way, such... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How to go about getting a boyfriend? |
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Posted: 21 Dec 2016, 5:53 pm
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| Well maybe that sort of approach can work for some females, but you would have to be the sort to end up on the dance floor flirting with guys or grind dancing next to them in the first place. Also before I met my boyfriend I got led on quite a few times particularly if me and the guy ended up havin... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: 9 Guidelines For Dating With Asperger's |
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Posted: 20 Dec 2016, 8:45 am
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Replies: 164
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| It's an interesting question if you have to tell people about your aspergers. I think it's really an individuals choice. I don't see any moral obligation that you have to tell people about your diagnosis. For thousands of years nobody knew what aspergers were and thus nobody had to tell anything. An... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: 9 Guidelines For Dating With Asperger's |
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Posted: 20 Dec 2016, 8:38 am
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Replies: 164
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| Ah. Gotcha. I write a blog on PsychCentral about that kind of stuff. It's called I'm Not A Robot. I could write something on here about it too though. I have terrible executive function. I don't have a job. I'm kind of hoping that writing this stuff can become my job. I come from an upper-middle-cl... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Would this count against being Aspergic ? |
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Posted: 20 Dec 2016, 6:33 am
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Replies: 12
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firemonkey wrote: Not being good at puzzles and having poor visuospatial ability.
Not really. Aspergers is about spending more energy in certain areas instead of distributing the energy to see smaller parts of a bigger picture. That does not contradict being good at puzzles or visual abilities. |
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