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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: There's plenty of fish in the ocean |
| Zed90230 |
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Posted: 21 Nov 2017, 10:37 pm
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Replies: 49
Views: 2,281
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| Many of the fish in the ocean are poison. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: There's no point |
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Posted: 21 Nov 2017, 6:24 pm
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Replies: 187
Views: 5,604
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| Seriously. I give up. Just find something else to focus your attention on. Not every one can find 'love' whatever the hell that's meant to be. Well, you won't meet the person who's right for you if all you do is sit around and wait to get picked. That sort of thing went out in the 1980s. If you thi... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: A meetup group seems like a good idea |
| Zed90230 |
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Posted: 20 Nov 2017, 11:12 pm
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Replies: 18
Views: 857
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| I did a search on meetup dot com for aspie dating groups, and guess what, there are none. I sense an opportunity. I think there's a general consensus that online dating is dying because there are just too many ways that dishonest and insincere people can join those sites and mess around, so a meetup... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How common is it to develop a dislike... |
| Zed90230 |
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Posted: 16 Nov 2017, 10:17 am
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Replies: 12
Views: 662
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| How common is it for a hetero person to develop a dislike of the opposite sex due to too many negative experiences or rejections? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What EXACTLY do I need to say on a dating website? |
| Zed90230 |
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Posted: 11 May 2017, 9:24 am
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Replies: 6
Views: 524
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| Don't even waste your time with online dating or dating apps. There are so many fake profiles and catfishing scams that the dating industry would barely exist without them. You'd do best to channel your energy into finding local meetup groups of singles who enjoy some of the same things you enjoy. G... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Loneliness and depression |
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Posted: 11 May 2017, 9:17 am
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Replies: 5
Views: 820
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| I'll turn 50 in a couple of months, I've been lonely since I was a kid because I know what I like. Eventually I accepted myself for what I am, gave up on trying to meet women, and immersed myself in activities I was good at AND which brought me pleasure. Now I'm an independent licensed building insp... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: How many people with ASD like to make things? |
| Zed90230 |
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Posted: 05 May 2017, 9:25 am
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Replies: 11
Views: 504
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| I'm curious to find out approximately how many people with ASD enjoy making things, whether it's something like artwork or building models, crafts like sewing etc, or the heavy-duty crafts like building things out of metal or wood. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: the Unwritten Rules of Dating |
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Posted: 31 Mar 2017, 8:26 pm
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Replies: 3
Views: 558
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Yes, these rules are the culprits which keep many aspies from finding love.
So far I've managed to collect 16 of the Unwritten Rules. Which ones have you heard? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Things people with ASD could find difficult in relationships |
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Posted: 31 Mar 2017, 8:20 pm
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Replies: 11
Views: 1,229
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1. Flirting makes no sense to me
2. I find all those unwritten rules totally counterintuitive |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Do people with Asperger's remain virgins for life? |
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Posted: 29 Mar 2017, 9:26 am
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Replies: 183
Views: 46,417
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| Meh, getting laid is for eggs and carpets as far as I care. IMO the measure of a man is in what he's accomplished with his life, not how many endorphin hits he's gotten. Sex is supposed to feel great, make you feel like you can kick the world's butt, etc etc... snorting cocaine might feel great too,... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is it really that difficult to understand the friendzone? |
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Posted: 28 Mar 2017, 9:19 am
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Replies: 63
Views: 3,968
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| I believe Alliekit. Check out r/incels if you want to see some examples of self-proclaimed "nice-guys" who are in fact bat-shit crazy and evil. Yeah, they and the MGTOW crowd as well... MGTOW aren't "men going their own way", they're a bunch of Archie Bunker wannabes who want ev... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is it really that difficult to understand the friendzone? |
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Posted: 27 Mar 2017, 8:19 am
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Replies: 63
Views: 3,968
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| From my POV as an asexual, the whole idea of a "friendzone" is just plain silly. A person is either a friend or they're not. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Love for Female Aspie? |
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Posted: 26 Mar 2017, 4:57 pm
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Replies: 9
Views: 1,062
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| I'm desperate Well that right there is a BIG no-no. Once people hear the D-word, they become mean-spirited and think it would be fun to mess with your mind. So if you feel desperate, keep it to yourself. As far as communication is concerned, I can only speak from a HFA perspective, but to me commun... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Not approached in bars anymore! |
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Posted: 21 Mar 2017, 6:48 pm
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Replies: 15
Views: 898
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| The only women who ever approached me in bars were drunk women who were old enough to be my mother. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Positive Relationships are Possible for People on the Spectrum - Love & Autism |
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Posted: 21 Mar 2017, 6:47 pm
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Replies: 92
Views: 6,712
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| 54. hmm. so waited all the life and only find love near the end, happy they are happy but that is depressing to me :( That's only around halfway through one's adult years. Except it would be hard to have a child at this point. Yes, even for men - fertility decreases, sperm quality decreases, and th... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I tried to meet someone on OKCupid |
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Posted: 21 Mar 2017, 12:04 pm
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Replies: 28
Views: 1,593
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| Sounds to me like the OP found a fake profile and tried to communicate with it. |
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