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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Women in their 30’s stop liking “bad boys”? |
| Closet Genious |
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Posted: 21 Oct 2019, 1:21 am
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Replies: 97
Views: 4,141
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| All relationships are transactional, whether it be based on economics, status, looks or personality. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Difference between FwB and boyfriend relationships? |
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Posted: 18 Sep 2019, 1:34 pm
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Replies: 11
Views: 1,256
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| The sex via FWB is superior, because as a guy I am 100% sure that she's having sex with me out of desire not out of convenience/benefits, ironically it should not be called Friends with Benefits but rather Friends with pure attraction, in reality the benefits exist in marriage/LT. Well put. The rea... |
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Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion Topic: Why does the Right stand any chance - at all? |
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Posted: 10 Sep 2019, 2:10 am
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Replies: 82
Views: 2,792
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| Because the right wing speakers often have better stratetic sense, and the way they argue appeal to a lot of people. As a left wing person myself, many of the left wing politicians and public speakers seriously need stop with moral outrage, and just deal with the arguements no matter how offensive t... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why do almost all 'incels' blame their situation on looks? |
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Posted: 09 Sep 2019, 1:32 pm
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Replies: 496
Views: 15,704
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| Love really is a very random thing at times. I think the problem with these discussions is that love or attraction can be seemingly random at an individual level and are quite predictable at a larger scale. You can often not tell why average looking person A fell in love with average looking person... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why do almost all 'incels' blame their situation on looks? |
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Posted: 09 Sep 2019, 9:48 am
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Replies: 496
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It is your opinion that it is random. From my perspective it is incredibly predictable.
And it's just a fact that certain variables correlate very strongly with dating success, and it's not personality and intelligence like certain dishonest people like to claim. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why do almost all 'incels' blame their situation on looks? |
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Posted: 09 Sep 2019, 7:54 am
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Replies: 496
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| I think you are making sapiosexuality too simple. The problem with sexual behavior and NDs is that it doesn't fit into any label at all, and so people use various labels to escape, like asexual, sapiosexual and even LGT. It doesn't mean that NDs doesn't experience sexual attraction, or that they ac... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why do almost all 'incels' blame their situation on looks? |
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Posted: 09 Sep 2019, 4:57 am
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Replies: 496
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| Do you think sapiosexuals are able to get horny and masterbate by just reading someone's thesis? Hmmm. Well, maybe if it's a good one. A good thesis might indicate that the male has a promising future, career wise. I think the cancer cure example is actually a bad one, because that would result in ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why do almost all 'incels' blame their situation on looks? |
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Posted: 09 Sep 2019, 4:52 am
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Replies: 496
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| Do you think sapiosexuals are able to get horny and masterbate by just reading someone's thesis? Hmmm. Well, maybe if it's a good one. A good thesis might indicate that the male has a promising future, career wise. I think the cancer cure example is actually a bad one, because that would result in ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why do almost all 'incels' blame their situation on looks? |
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Posted: 09 Sep 2019, 4:44 am
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Replies: 496
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| Plenty of thugs from the hood get women. In my experience, often more so than academics. I think intelligence is one the most useless traits when it comes attracting the opposite sex. Which is why sapiosexual is one the most ridiculous terms in existence and does not actually exist. The only reason... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why do almost all 'incels' blame their situation on looks? |
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Posted: 09 Sep 2019, 1:54 am
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Replies: 496
Views: 15,704
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| Plenty of thugs from the hood get women. In my experience, often more so than academics. I think intelligence is one the most useless traits when it comes attracting the opposite sex. Which is why sapiosexual is one the most ridiculous terms in existence and does not actually exist. The only reason ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why do almost all 'incels' blame their situation on looks? |
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Posted: 03 Sep 2019, 7:57 am
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Replies: 496
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| Something I'll add about abstract social complexities - Occam's Razor generally works when you believe yourself to be engaging non-living systems, as inorganic chemistry and physics are often seen, but to some degree complexity tends to explode when life is involved for the simple reason that life ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why do almost all 'incels' blame their situation on looks? |
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Posted: 03 Sep 2019, 3:19 am
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Replies: 496
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| One thought: Despite knowing several 30yo virgins, I've never met IRL anyone identifying as an incel or presenting their views. Maybe it's my relatively conservative culture? Boys who aren't the most brilliant socially most often focus on a career that would "enable them to support a family&qu... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why do almost all 'incels' blame their situation on looks? |
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Posted: 03 Sep 2019, 1:15 am
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Replies: 496
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| I don't want to completely neglect your own experiences techstep, but I think that theory is based on unecessary abstractions. If you're good looking, you will already from an early age automatically be included in so many social situations, that you will naturally develop the personality traits tha... |
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Forum: Health, Fitness, and Sports Topic: Trying to lose weight healthily |
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Posted: 02 Sep 2019, 4:58 pm
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Replies: 12
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| I’m a pescatarian and have lost 8 or 9 pounds. There is no one way diet but I recommend monk fruit and stevia instead of actual sugar. It’s really helped me wean off of sugary drinks. Do you eat meat? Pescatarian can have fish but you cut out higher calorie meats like chicken, beef and pork. Chicke... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why do almost all 'incels' blame their situation on looks? |
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Posted: 02 Sep 2019, 4:15 pm
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Replies: 496
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| This also applies to this forum. Fact is, if the lonely guys on this forum had let's say 9/10 looks, they would have absolutely no problem finding a parter, regardless of "bad attitudes", poor jobs, depression or autism. Some caveat to that - with 9/10 looks they could still be blocked ou... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why do almost all 'incels' blame their situation on looks? |
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Posted: 02 Sep 2019, 3:37 pm
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Replies: 496
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| Incels focus on looks because it's by far the most important factor when it comes to dating and relationships. People can cherry pick all they want, and point to the 3-4 exceptions they know of, but the science is pretty clear on this. Denying this is disingenuous, and leads to bad and misleading ad... |
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