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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Today is the day... |
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Posted: 24 Oct 2017, 9:41 pm
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Today is the day... |
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Posted: 24 Oct 2017, 9:08 pm
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| Hi all — Some of you have followed my thread in relationship with ASD (undiagnosed) anyway... today is the day we meet in person after our 6 week break. I was in Australia and he was the other side of the world... in retrospect, I didn’t understand him fully and after spending 6 weeks on the forum a... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Relationship with ASD (Undiagnosed) |
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Posted: 19 Oct 2017, 9:00 pm
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Insania2016 wrote: Mmm sounds like trauma. He needs to see a therapist.
Why don’t you say that ?? |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Relationship with ASD (Undiagnosed) |
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Posted: 19 Oct 2017, 8:52 pm
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AspieSingleDad wrote: I hope you do get another chance. You certainly seem to care about this man quite a bit.
Thank you!! ! You’ve been so insightful and helpful through this whole process. I truly and deeply love him. pray for us ! |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: ASD partner “not good enough” |
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Posted: 19 Oct 2017, 8:47 pm
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Replies: 22
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Hi!
Any NTs out there who have been told by others that their ASD partner isn’t good enough for them and that they can do better? It hurts me that other people say that.... how do you deal with it / respond to that? |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Relationship with ASD (Undiagnosed) |
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Posted: 19 Oct 2017, 8:55 am
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| At this point I am willing to invest everything — I understand what you’re saying and I think you’re thinking rationally... it’s not Calculated, but rather rational.. I have researched so much more on ASD and NT relationships and Just ASD in general and I understand at a much deeper level now... I’m... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Relationship with ASD (Undiagnosed) |
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Posted: 19 Oct 2017, 3:38 am
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| Why do you say that? I actually have a good feeling about our meeting. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Relationship with ASD (Undiagnosed) |
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Posted: 19 Oct 2017, 1:51 am
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| Another update —last week I asked him to get me from the airport. At first he said if he isn’t working. He does shift work and I pointed out that he already knows his schedule... he said yes true. He then said it might be weird to get me. Then he went on to say he doesn’t really know what to do beca... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: My messages are not sending!! |
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Posted: 10 Oct 2017, 9:37 pm
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| Stilljaded — I’ve tried to thank you many times for your lengthy response to my questions and have tried to pm you a few times over the past 2 days and it’s not going through.... anyone else have that issue? How do I contact the member I want to contact? All messages are remaining in my outbox and n... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspires and NT relationship issues |
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Posted: 08 Oct 2017, 11:14 pm
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| AspieSingleDad, I think you are being exploited. I was worried for you, quite frankly. stilljaded’s post, at the top of the page reveals some things about hrself, of which you have touched on in some of your posts. I assume that you either did not pick up on her intent and the red flags throughout ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Aspires and NT relationship issues |
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Posted: 08 Oct 2017, 9:35 pm
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| That's weird. I totally didn't get your PM. Or are PMs different from the messages I've been receiving? In either case, I did see you were from Colorado and I saw your avatar...and...than I saw you were married LOL. You husband is a lucky guy. LOL. Maybe I sent it to the wrong person or maybe never... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: SEX AND STIMMING |
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Posted: 08 Oct 2017, 12:39 am
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| Is It possible stimming behaviors are evident during sex? My bf is undiagnosed and every time we are intimate he says “really” about 50 Times... it seems like a repetitive tic |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Relationship with ASD (Undiagnosed) |
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Posted: 06 Oct 2017, 10:35 pm
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| After 2 weeks of not being in communication.. I messaged him... he said we can talk from time to time but wants to be on a break until I return to his country. He asked when I am coming back and I told him. I asked if we are still together and he said yes we still are. He said he does not know what ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Could my partner have ASD? |
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Posted: 04 Oct 2017, 8:33 am
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| That is really tough... I’m sorry about your grandma and hope she’s ok... I’ve shared many times concerns I have with my bf, and he just seems nonchalant about it. We met last July and have been exclusive since December. We see each other every 6-8 weeks and we just spent 2 months living together (l... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Relationship with ASD (Undiagnosed) |
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Posted: 04 Oct 2017, 8:27 am
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| Those questions are difficult ones and whenever I try to speak with him about or relationship he’s quite shut down and most of his answers are “yes” “No” and the most popular answer.. “I don’t know” I want a loving and loyal relationship where communication can flow a little better and easier... I’m... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Relationship with ASD (Undiagnosed) |
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Posted: 04 Oct 2017, 4:16 am
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Replies: 53
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| UPDATE: 1. His mom messaged me saying she asked my boyfriend when I’m back since he had told her oct 2nd (its passed) He said I delayed my trip because I had things to do / issues in my home country. 2. He told her that he still plans on living with me when I return 3. He told her he is waiting for ... |
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